I don’t understand…hard time letting go

May 15, 2024

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We received the following question on RRR:

I still need help with this please. I don’t understand what this means and am still having a very hard time letting go…
This is the passage I don’t understand…

“If you continue in emotional and spiritual adultery, with your husband as your first love, your husband’s first love will not be you—but the OW.

How can you change that?

How can you possibly let go of someone you care so much for; someone you want so much?

Well, if your husband came to you and asked YOU the very same thing about the woman he was involved with, what would you say?

What solution would you give him?

Whatever it is might just be the place where you should start.

Please clarify….What do you mean what solution would I give him and that then that’s what I should do? I don’t  know what solution I would give.