Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
“Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end: "Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Pays |
| Ile Maurice |
| Quelle langue parlez-vous |
| Anglais et Français |
| Je suis là: |
| Je cherche à restaurer mon mariage. |
| Quelle est ta situation conjugale actuelle? |
| Mariée, et mon mari vit avec moi. |
| Avez-vous lu le livre "Comment Dieu peut et va restaurer votre mariage?" |
| Non |
| Comment avez-vous trouvé notre ministère ? |
| Je cherchais des réponses concernant l'adultère afin que Dieu m'aide et je suis tombée sur le commentaire d'une personne sur la page de topchretien. |
| Maintenant, veuillez nous parler de votre situation et pourquoi vous êtes venu nous demander de l'aide et qu'est-ce que votre mari/partenaire a dit comme étant les principaux problèmes ou problèmes qu'il a avec vous et votre relation ? |
| Je suis mariée depuis 2013 et nous avons un fils de 3ans bientôt. J'ai trompée mon mari depuis l'année dernière et entretenue cette relation avec un autre chrétien. Mon mari l'a découvert et je me sens honteuse. Je ne comprends plus. Ce n'est pas la première fois que je le trompe et je ne veux pas rester dans cet état. Je veux que Dieu change ma vie et restaure mon mariage car mon mari songe au divorce. Nous n'en avons pas parlé a nos proches mais uniquement a un ancien couple chrétien qui nous soutient dans la prière. Nous n'allons plus a l'église et n'en n'avons pas parlé à notre pasteur non plus. Mon mari prêche ainsi que l'homme avec qui je l'ai trompé. Je pensais qu'il m'aimait. On se ressemblait. Je me sentais bien avec lui et je pouvais lui dire les choses que mon mari ne comprenait pas. Nous avions tenté de mettre un fin à cette relation à plusieurs reprises mais nous avons continuer à nous parler et voir. J'ai tenté de le re-contacter après ma sortie de l'hôpital puisque quand sa femme a appris la nouvelle de mon mari, elle m'a frappé plusieurs fois. Cependant, il veut rien entendre de moi. Je comprends que c'est fini. C'est mieux ainsi. Car je veux honorer Dieu et vivre une vie de sanctification. Mon mari a menacé de m'enlever mon fils si je quitte la maison. Ayant des parents inconvertis , nous les avons pas informer mais c'est comme si Dieu fait silence. Mon mari dort dans une autre chambre et ne souhaite pas me parler. Je me sens si seule et je veux que Dieu intervient. |
| Veuillez utiliser l'espace ci-dessous pour simplement parler à Dieu, dans vos propres mots, en lui ouvrant votre cœur. |
| Seigneur Jésus, tu me connais. Tu sais que je suis tellement honteuse et je souhaite que ta main change la situation. Je veux t'honorer et te servir toute ma vie. Je n'ai personne sauf toi qui me comprends réellement. Fais ton oeuvre en moi afin que je puisse te glorifier. Restaure mon mariage je te prie. Pardonne moi de mon pêché et relève moi stp.. Je suis tombée et me sens si faible. |
| Afin que nous puissions vous servir plus efficacement, veuillez vérifier quelles préoccupations s'appliquent à vous : |
| Suicidaire. Déprimée. Abusé ou agressé dans son enfance. Tombé dans l'adultère, besoin d'aide. |
| Enfin, veuillez choisir comment vous souhaitez que nous procédions à votre évaluation de mariage parmi les choix ci-dessous. |
| En publiant votre questionnaire En privé à un étudiant désigné du ministère du mariage IOU. Échantillon |
| Country |
| MAURITIUS |
| What language do you speak |
| English and French |
| I am here: |
| I am seeking to restore my marriage. |
| What is your current marital situation? |
| Married, and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book “How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?” |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| I was looking for answers regarding adultery so that God would help me and I came across a comment from someone on the topchretien page. |
| Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I have been married since 2013 and we have a 3 year old son soon. I have been cheating on my husband for the last year and maintaining this relationship with another Christian. My husband found out and I feel ashamed. I do not understand. This isn't the first time I've cheated on him and I don't want to stay like this. I want God to change my life and restore my marriage because my husband is considering divorce. We have not spoken about it to our loved ones but only to a former Christian couple who supports us in prayer. We no longer go to church and haven't told our pastor about it either. My husband is preaching and so is the man I cheated on him with. I thought he loved me. We looked alike. I felt good with him and I could tell him things that my husband didn't understand. We had tried to end this relationship several times but we continued to talk and see. I tried to contact him again after I left the hospital because when his wife heard the news about my husband, she hit me several times. However, he doesn't want to hear anything from me. I understand it's over. It's better that way. Because I want to honor God and live a life of sanctification. My husband threatened to take my son away from me if I leave the house. Having unconverted parents, we did not inform them but it is as if God is silent. My husband is sleeping in another room and does not want to talk to me. I feel so alone and I want God to intervene. |
| Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, opening your heart to Him. |
| Lord, you know me. You know I'm so ashamed and I wish your hand would change the situation. I want to honor you and serve you all my life. I don't have anyone except you who really understands me. Do your work in me that I may glorify you. Restore my marriage please. Forgive me for my sin and please pick me up. I have fallen and feel so weak. |
| So that we can serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
| Suicidal. Depressed. Abused or assaulted as a child. Fallen into adultery, need help. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your marriage assessment from the choices below. |
| By posting your questionnaire Privately to a designated IOU Marriage Ministry student. Sample |
Dear precious bride I am so sorry for all the hurt you and your husband are going through. I want to encourage you to not look back any more and to ask our Darling to help you to forget the other man and to put all your focus on our Darling Lord, He is the One who will bring healing and restoration.
““Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” I43:18-19
I want to encourage you to please read this testimony – https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d18-chapter-14-first-to-throw-a-stone/it-was-me/
And I also want to encourage you to please start with Course 1 ( https://hopeatlast.com/c1/ ) and to also please journal because journalling is so important because there you get the chance to pour out your heart to our Darling Lord. Dear precious bride, please put all your focus on our Darling Lord and experience His everlasting love for you and His forgiveness for you and I look forward to see what the Lord is going to do in your life.
Dear Bride,
I am so glad that you have found RMI.
God forgives!
Please do not speak to anybody about your situation as nobody has to know about it.
Just speak to God as he IS THE ONLY ONE who will not judge, will listen to you and who know exactly what you feel and what you are going through. He is the only One who can change the situation.
Please read the book on How God Can And Will Restore Your Marraige and let God change YOU. What an amazing journey that is!
You will never regret it!
Then the word of the Lord came to me.
He said, “Can I not do with you, Israel, as this potter does?” declares the Lord. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, Israel.” Jeremiah 8:1-6
We are clay in God’s hand and He will shape us! Doesn’t matter where we are, what we did or who we are. Just surrender to Him and He will shape you!
Dearest bride.
I want to encourage you to seek Him, pour out everything to Him. He is waiting for you to talk to Him, give it all to Him.
I want to encourage you to start with the first chapter of How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage:
https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
Our Heavenly Father wants all of you:
But I have this against you,that you have left your first love.—Revelation 2:4
Make Him your First Love again.
Read and pray Psalm 51 aloud: “Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. Against Thee, Thee only, have I sinned, and done what is evil in Thy sight. Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not take Thy Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Thy salvation, and sustain me with a willing spirit. Then I will teach transgressors Thy ways, and sinners will be converted to Thee. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, Thou will not despise.”
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”