Chapter 10 "Various Trials"

“Consider it all joy, my brethren,
when you encounter various trials,
knowing that the testing of your faith
produces endurance.”
James 1:2-3.

What is God’s purpose for our trials and tribulations? Many Christians have no idea why God allows our suffering. Without our understanding of this, is it any wonder that Christians today are so easily defeated? We will see that there are many benefits that come from our trials and tests, especially the building of our faith and the endurance needed to finish the course set before us.

The most important thing that we need to realize during our trials, tribulations, tests, and temptations is that God is in control! It is His hand that allows these trials to touch us or not to touch us. When He does allow it, He sends His grace and mercy, which enable us to endure.

Temptations. The temptations that we experience, Scripture tells us, are common to man, yet God does provide a way of escape. “No temptation has overtaken you but that which is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, that you may be able to endure it.” 1Cor. 10:13.

Temptations are brought on by our own lusts. God cannot tempt us to do evil, but instead it is our lusts that tempt us. “Let no one say when he is being tempted, 'I am being tempted by God'; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust.” James 1:13. When we think of lust, we usually think of something sexual. However, the lust that the Bible refers to is greed for all things that feed our flesh; this includes getting our own way.

We are in His Hand. “For I have taken all this to my heart and explain it that righteous men, wise men and their deeds are in the hand of God.” Eccl. 9:1. Though we try to get things from others, especially from our husbands, all that we receive is from the Lord.

“Many seek the ruler's favor, but justice for man comes from the Lord.” Prov. 29:26.

“The horse is prepared for the day of battle, but victory belongs to the Lord.” Prov. 21:31.

“The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the Lord.” Prov. 16:33.

“The king's heart is like channels of water in the hand of the Lord; He turns it wherever He wishes.” Prov. 21:1.

Permission for adversity. The most comforting thing to know is that Satan cannot touch us without God's permission. “Then the Lord said to Satan, 'Behold, all that he has is in your power, only do not put forth your hand on him'.” Job. 1:12.  Not only did Satan need permission to sift Job, but he was also given specific instructions on how he could touch him. Satan also asked permission to sift Peter. “Simon, Simon, behold, Satan has demanded permission to sift you like wheat….” Luke 22:31.

Repentance and salvation. “I now rejoice, not that you were made sorrowful, but that you were made sorrowful to the point of repentance; for you were made sorrowful according to the will of God, in order that you might not suffer loss in anything through us. For the sorrow that is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation; but the sorrow of the world produces death.” 2Cor. 7:9. God allows us to be sorrowful to bring us to repentance. When we try to make our husbands (or others) sorry for what they have done, it will not bring true and genuine repentance.

We need grace. “And He has said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.’ Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may dwell in me. Therefore, I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ's sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2Cor. 12: 9-10. How do we get the grace we need? Through humility.

 “God hates the proud but gives grace to the humble.” James 4:6.

 “For everyone who exalts himself shall be humbled, but he who humbles himself shall be exalted.” Luke 18:14.

 “Blessed are the humble for they shall inherit the earth.” Matt. 5:5.

 “A man's pride will bring him low, but a humble spirit will obtain honor.” Prov. 29:23. Boasting about our weaknesses, confessing our faults and being humble will enable the Holy Spirit to dwell in us. This is the way that we will learn contentment no matter what our circumstances.

Learning contentment. We see that we must learn contentment by the difficult circumstances that God allows. “Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. In every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need.” Phil 4:11.

Learning obedience. Even Jesus learned obedience from His suffering.  “Although He was a Son, He learned obedience from the things which He suffered.” Heb. 5:8.

He will perfect us. “For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.” Phil 1:6. Once He has begun a good work in you, your husband or loved ones, He will complete it.

We are to be a comfort to others. We are not merely to accept God's comfort; we are commanded to give that comfort to others, no matter what their affliction! “The God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” 2Cor. 1:3-4.

Our Father's discipline. Many times our suffering is discipline from our Heavenly Father for disobeying one of God's laws. “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor faint when you are being reproved by Him; for those whom the Lord loves He disciplines and He scourges every son whom He receives. It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons. He disciplines us for our good, that we may share His holiness.” Heb. 12:5-10.

Discipline is a blessing. When we follow the example of the prophets in the Bible, it will help us to endure our adversity. “As an example, brethren, of suffering and patience, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. Behold, we count those blessed who endured. You have heard of the endurance of Job and have seen the outcome of the Lord's dealings, that the Lord is full of compassion and is merciful.” James 5:10.

To receive a blessing. When evil is done to us or insults are cast our way, we must endure them, without returning them, to receive our blessing. We need to remember that insults and evils are brought into our lives to give us an “opportunity” to receive a blessing. “Not returning evil for evil, or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead, for you were called for the very purpose that you may inherit a blessing.” 1Pet. 3:9. “But even if you should suffer for the sake of righteousness, you are blessed. And do not fear their intimidations and do not be troubled.”  1Pet. 3:14.

Discipline may be sorrowful. Discipline is never joyful when you are in the midst of it. Yet, those who have been trained by His discipline know the rewards of righteousness; it brings peace. “All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.” Heb. 12:11.

It begins with Christians. Why must suffering first begin with Christians? Because sinful, disobedient Christians will never draw others to the Lord. Again, it is the “will of God” that we are put through sufferings. We need to allow ourselves to suffer (usually at the hands of another) by entrusting ourselves to God. “For it is time for judgment to begin with the household of God; and if it begins with us first, what will be the outcome for those who do not obey the gospel of God? Therefore, let those also who suffer according to the will of God entrust their souls to a faithful Creator in doing what is right.” 1Pet. 4:17.

The power of our faith. It is faith that opens the door to miracles. But you need to believe that He is able to do it and not doubt it in your heart. “And Jesus answered saying to them, 'Have faith in God. Truly I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, be taken up and cast into the sea, and does not doubt it in his heart, but believes that what he says is going to happen, it shall be granted him. Therefore I say to you, all things for which you pray, they shall be granted unto you.” Mark 11:22-24.

God in His Word has told us we will suffer. “For indeed when we were with you, we kept telling you in advance that we were going to suffer affliction; and so it came to pass, as you know. For this reason, when I could endure it no longer; I also sent to find out about your faith, for fear that the tempter might have tempted you, and our labor should be in vain.” 1Thes. 3:4-5. Don't give up! Don't let Satan steal the miracle that God has for you when you have endured and prevailed!

With God. “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matt. 19:26. “Looking upon them, Jesus said, 'With men it is impossible, but not with God; for all things are possible with God.’” Mark 10:27. Nothing (NOT A THING) is impossible with God. Work with God. And since He is not a respecter of persons, What He's done for others, He's going to do for you! 

What you speak. “…let us hold fast our confession.” Heb. 4:14. We need to speak what God says in His Word, without wavering, with hope on our lips. “If it be so our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the furnace of blazing fire; and He will deliver us out of your hand, O king. But even if He does not….” Dan. 3:17. But wait until you are asked to give an account. You will be asked, if you are filled with the joy of the Lord during the midst of your adversity! “But sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account of the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.” 1Pet. 3:15. When asked, be sure that you answer the other person with reverence, respect and gentleness. Never argue Scripture!

Gird your mind and stay fixed. “Therefore, gird your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” 1Pet. 1:13. The word sober means to be clear thinking; be clear in your mind on how you stand to avoid the consequences of double-mindedness.

Be joyful. We are to be joyful in our trials because we know they are producing endurance that will enable us to finish the course set before us. “Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives it to all men without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea driven and tossed by the wind.” James 1:2-6. We know our faith is being tested. Fears and doubts come into everyone's minds; don't entertain them! Instead, think on only good things. If you doubt, you will have trouble standing and the trials will be tougher. And remember, we will have a variety of trials, some major and others mere irritations. We need to “thank Him” for all our trials, as Job did.

Rejoice. Rejoice in the Lord always; again I say rejoice! Let your forbearing spirit be known to all men, the Lord is near! Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good report, if there is any excellence or anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things. The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things; and the God of peace shall be with you.” Phil. 4:6-9. Clearly most battles are won or lost in the mind. Follow the Lord’s advice for peace in the midst of trials. Rejoice in what He is doing. Think on these things, speak of these things, and listen to only these things. (Many times close friends call to tell you what your husband is up to; these are not a “good report” and, most times, are not lovely, pure or right, so don't listen!)

Faith is NOT seen. Others want to know how things are going when they know you are experiencing trials in your life. They are looking for signs of improvement. We must remember that Scripture is very clear: faith is unseen! Answer their questions with, “God is working!” “Therefore we do not lose heart, but though our outer man is decaying, yet our inner man is being renewed day by day. For our momentary light affliction is producing for us a far more eternal weight in glory far beyond comparison, while we look not at the things which are seen, but the things which are not seen, for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.” 2Cor. 4:16-18.

Not seen! When we are experiencing what Paul calls “light affliction,” it may still be breaking our hearts. Let us remind ourselves of the most important truth: these afflictions are only momentary. And they are not only temporary but they are producing something wonderful for us in glory. Remember, the suffering is temporary and the benefits will last an eternity! “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things NOT seen.” Heb. 11:1.

Not by sight. Most people start believing when they begin to see something happening – this is not faith!  “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” 2Cor. 5:7.

Looking at our circumstances. When Peter looked at his circumstances he sank, and you will too. “And He said ‘Come!’ And Peter got out of the boat, and walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But seeing the wind, he became frightened, and beginning to sink, he cried out, saying, ‘Lord save me!’ And immediately Jesus stretched out His hand and took hold of him, and said to him, ‘O you of little faith, why did you doubt?’ ” Matt. 14:29.

For our testing. This is probably the most important lesson in our stand for our families and our marriages: being able to pass our test. The test of our faith is believing His Word and not being swayed by emotion or by false directions. “Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” James 1:2.

Tested by fire. “In this you greatly rejoice, even though for a little while, if necessary you have been distressed by various trials, that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” 1Pet. 1:6-7. So many have failed their test and have continued to walk in the desert as the people of Israel did. The proof of your faith is more precious than gold.

Keep the faith. Do not turn to another plan when things get tough; do not compromise what you started off to do. Satan is known for bringing new (and wrong) solutions to our trials; this is our test. “I have fought the good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith; henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness….” 2Tim 4:7.

Ask God for another woman who will stand with you. Find another who will help you to stand and not to bend from your commitment. “Two are better than one for they have a good return for their labor. For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up. Furthermore, if two lie down together they keep warm, but how can one be warm alone? And if one can overpower him who is alone, two can resist him. A cord of three is not easily broken.” Eccl. 4:9-1. Since a cord of three is not easily broken, try to find two others who will stand, encourage you and keep you firm in the direction of your faith. Here are some examples found in Scriptures.

Moses, Aaron and Hur. “But Moses’ hands were heavy. Then they took a stone and put it under him, and he sat on it; and Aaron and Hur supported his hands, one on one side and one on the other. Thus his hands were steady until the sun set.” Ex. 17:12. Also see Shadrach, Meshach and Abed-nego in the book of Daniel Chapter 3.

Paul, Luke and Timothy. When Paul was in prison, he had two men to help encourage him. When Demas left, Paul sent for Timothy. We are told that Demas left because the cares of the world choked the Word from him. The following verse tells us why: “And the one on whom seed was sown among the thorns, this is the man who hears the Word, and the worry of the world, and the deceitfulness of riches choke the Word and it becomes unfruitful.” Matt. 13:22. Scripture says specifically that it was because of “worry” and also because of “riches.” So let us be careful not to worry about our circumstances or get caught up with money or possessions. We need to trust that “Our God will supply all our needs” when our husbands aren’t working or it doesn't “look” like there will be enough money. Many have fallen from their faith because the Word was choked out.

Ask God for guidance through your trials. “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct thy paths.” Prov. 3:5-7. Let us call on Him for strength, draw close to Him in our time of need. Let us allow Him to discipline us, try us, and test us. Let us rejoice always in all things, not just the good things, but also in the troubles that come our way. Let us keep our hope close to our lips and stay steadfast in our minds. Let us always remember that it is His will that we face these hard times and that they are for our good!

Here are Scripture verses to run to during your various trials:

God is in control, not man and not Satan.

  1. Justice is from the Lord. (Prov. 29:26)
  2. An answer is from the Lord. (Prov. 16:1)
  3. The Lord turns the heart. (Prov. 21:1)
  4. Their deeds are in God's hand. (Eccl. 9:1)
  5. Thou (God) has done it. (Ps. 44:9-15)
  6. He (God) raised the storm. (Ps. 107:1-32)
  7. He (God) removed lover and friend. (Ps. 88:8, 18)

What do our trials do for us?

  1. So the power of Christ will dwell in us. (2Cor 12:9-10)
  2. So we will learn to be content. (Phil 4:9)
  3. So we will receive a reward. (2Tim 4:7-8)
  4. So we lack nothing. (James 1:2-4)
  5. To enable us to comfort others. (2Cor 1:3-4)
  6. To perfect what He started in us. (Phil 1:6-13)
  7. To have our loved one back. (Philemon 1:15-16)
  8. To receive mercy. (Heb. 4:15)
  9. To learn obedience. (Heb. 5:7-8)
  10. To produce endurance. (James 1:2-4)
  11. To receive the crown of life. (James 1:12)
  12. To prove our faith. (1Pet. 1:6-7)
  13. To follow in His steps. (1Pet. 2:21)
  14. To share in His sufferings. (1Pet. 3:13)

To be perfect, confirmed, strengthened and established. (1Pet. 5:10)

Let us rejoice that He considers

us worthy to suffer for His name!

Acts 5:41.


She [the Proverbs woman] smiles at the future.

Proverbs 31:25.

And we know that God causes all things

to work together for good

to those who love God,

to those who are called according to

His purpose.

Romans 8:28.


Personal commitment: To consider it all JOY when I encounter various trials. “Based on what I have learned from God's Word, I commit to allowing the testing of my faith to help produce my endurance. And I will let endurance have its perfect result, that I may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.”


As I conclude this workbook, let me quote John 21:25.

“And there are also many other things…which if they were written in detail,

I suppose that even the world itself would not contain the books which were written.”

If you are ready to make a commitment to GOD to finish the course, by CLICKING HERE you've agreed, and are ready to document this next step along your Restoration Journey in your "My Daily Journal" form. Take your time, sit down, grab your coffee or tea, and pour your heart into your Journal. 

As an “Older women likewise…teaching what is good, that they may ENCOURAGE the young women…” (Titus 2:3) you will have the opportunity to speak to the younger women who are still single as part of your ministry.


For more information on coming through Various Trials, visit our Crisis Corner.

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