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We received this question from a bride, please Seek God to encourage her:
Hello, my english is not very good. I want to ask, my husband (36 years old) wants to spend his free time with a young woman of 18 years old, he wants me to approve it and support him in it. it hurts me a lot and I don't know what to do. Please advise if I should support him in this or tell him I don't like it.
Thank you
Dear precious bride, I am so very sorry for your hurt, which I know must hurt very much.
I want to encourage you to please read this lesson: https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d8-married/
And I want to encourage you to pray ( https://hopeatlast.com/power-of-prayer/ ) and seek our Darling Lord, He is the One that will lead you, He turns kings hearts – “In the LORD’s hand the king’s heart is a stream of water that he channels toward all who please him.” P21:1 https://biblehub.com/proverbs/21-1.htm so He will turn your husband’s heart.
And I really want to encourage you to trust our Darling Lord to fight this battle for you, pour out your heart to Him and take His hand – “Do not be afraid of them; the LORD your God himself will fight for you.” D3:22
Ask our Darling Lord to please speak to your husband – https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/
Dear Bride, I sympathize with your pain, I have also experienced that my husband would rather be with another woman.
I would encourage you to read the chapter below about a gentle and quiet spirit that is precious in His sight.
https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d11-chapter-9-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/
He knows about your situation and wants to help you, trust that He is the only one who can give you wisdom, let Him fight for your marriage,
Exodus 14:14 (KJV)
The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.
But if the unbeliever forsakes her, he leaves her. The brother or sister is not bound in this case; God has called you to peace. For how can you know, wife, that you will save your husband? Or how can you know, husband, that you will save your wife? 1 Corinthians 7:15-16
Dear Bride, It’s horrible what you’re going through. Nothing can hurt a woman more than hearing her husband say he would like to be with another woman. I feel your sadness. God knows your sorrow. He is near to the brokenhearted Psalm 34:19. And He wants to hold your hand during this crisis situation in your marriage.
As a bride, it has helped me to read and meditate on these lessons https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/ and https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d16- dealing-with-adultery/. When you have read each lesson, pour your heart out in the diaries. Your Lord wants nothing more than to comfort you and tell you about the wonderful plans He has for your future.
I look forward to the great praise reports you will submit.
Lots of love
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