I am so grateful to my Heavenly Man for guiding me on this journey with Him. I couldn’t think of a better partner who gives me what I need with and in love. As He gracefully breaks me in order to transform me into a beautiful perfect bride. He also gives me the wisdom and tools I need. After all, He knows what I would need for every battle He puts me through. And all for the good of me. A few months ago I started to notice that I was increasingly conflicted with my youngest son. He is a strong boy his name is, Jonah, you know, that prophet from the bible that first did not go to the town that God send him to. to warn the people that God would punish them. My son is like this prophet, for in most cases he will argue with me and who likes to express his opinion. But my HM knows why He gave me a son like this. Just like I used to be. However, I have been too guided or misled by contradicting my son instead of “Winning Without a Word” https://hopeatlast.com/c1/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ because I have experienced this principle not only helps to improve the relationship with your husband, or ex-husband. But also with your children.
So after a few moments, my son decided to tell his father about this. And I went to my prayer room, because certainly ladies I didn’t know what to do anymore. And if you don’t know then it’s best to say nothing and hand it over to our HM. After I repented for the times when I fed my flesh. Did He help me to have the conversations with my former husband about the situations. Because my HM with His love by my side, made sure that I didn’t use so many words with during our first conversation and didn’t physically show that I started to feel offended. During the second conversation I felt even more secure on his right hand thanks to my Heavenly Man. After all, He had given me this promise a few days beforehand. Psalm 112:7 He will not be afraid of an evil report, his heart is at ease, trusting in the Lord.
Dear ladies, but what I am most thankful for and want to give Him all the glory for is that, for me, falling back into some old habits has brought me closer to Him. From the chapter “Kindness is on Her Tongue” I learned an even deeper meaning about the Bible verse in Proverbs 16:24 Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. After asking Him if He would have me use this promise in relation to my son. Can I already tell you that after about 4 days my son complimented me on how much he liked it with me. I had not once had a conflict situation with him that he could remember. And you know what a nice thing about this is that I myself didn’t really feel like I was really doing things differently. I have simply asked that He help me communicate with my son and Him answered my prayer when I asked Him to help me talk to my son according to Proverbs 16:24.
I have written the verse on a 3×5 and regularly repeat it to myself. He was faithful to add the fruit of peace between me and my son. Ladies isn’t he great. No person or anything would have helped me so quickly with this change He has made between me and my son. And for that I can’t thank Him enough. So ladies, please read this chapter whenever you need wisdom on how and when to talk to anyone. It will bring you so much peace in your life.
I am now stronger and wiser than a few days ago. He put my feet back on the rock after I fell off it. And I know He always will do that in His loveš
Wow Kristine š Thank you so much for coming to share this PRAISE about your son and the WW Chapter: “Kindness is on her Tongue”.
It cannot be a coincidence because just today I’m busy preparing to record this Chapter which will be up on the blog next week Thursday..
I am also facing a situation today where l also need to have kindness on my tongue with EH Dale… as you know I’m restored but things are not perfect.. we still have struggles… & that is why l need my Husband even more and what keeps me close to Him š it was such a blessing being able to go over the scriptures in this chapter and know that my Husband is in control and l can Win Without Words and have Kindness on my Tongue.
It is only with our HH help, love and support that we can win those we love and everyone He brings into our lives without a word and with kindness on our tongues š
Only He could turn around a situation like that and He deserves all our praise šš¾
What a blessing you are Atarah. I have to say I have loved watching you become more transparent, more real, and more raw. Yvonne and I have already spoken about offering you the LMF license ministry franchise for hope at last. https://restoreministriesinternational.com/fm/
Just continue to minister and also monitor the dashboard. Earlier removed you from up from an AUTHOR to an EDITOR to give you the ability to schedule and approve comments and posted praise.
Thank you Erin.. more and more l realise each day how much l love ministering to women and if l could do anything in life this would be it!
Good morning. Itās early here, actually still dark, and I was eager to see what you were serving here to feast on. But unfortunately, there was nothing new available from you.Ā
My Husband showed me a post Iād drafted, which I quickly posted and then made my way to see what was coming up. I saw you were currently working on something to post today but itās already afternoon for you.Ā
Always thinking the best, I assumed youād been ministering through comments. Unfortunately, once again, I didnāt see you, but from Hope Darling and several of mine from yesterday, Sunday.
No doubt GOD is using this for GOOD to help us become much better at understanding the LMF and making sure we all are in agreement, and thereās no misunderstanding on what it means to faithfully spiritually feed His sheep on HOPEāS pasture.Ā
āShe rises, while it is he at night, and gives food to her maiden and household.ā https://biblehub.com/proverbs/31-15.htm Is the first thing that came to mind.Ā
The second thing that came to mind when I believed I was mistaken in what I expected was living on a farm and how all of our animals depended on our children, feeding them before feeding themselves. Even our youngest knew she had to get up to feed the chickens first, and then she could retrieve the eggs for breakfastā¦ Her breakfast.Ā
Another thing I want to be transparent about is that I thought perhaps I would have to keep a tally or mark this on the calendar to search for to see if there are to keep track of each time there was something to feed the Hope flock. Thatās why my husband reminded me of this promise/principle NOT COUNTING https://biblehub.com/2_corinthians/5-19.htm
And also, LOVE does NOT keep countā¦
https://biblehub.com/1_corinthians/13-5.htm
Finally, when I wanted to find a way to contact you, privately, I need to reach out to you in telegram, my husband also reminded me of thisā¦
āNo one lights a lamp and then hides it or puts it under a basket . Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where its light can be seen by all who enter the house, those who come may see the light.ā L1133
The days of us working deep underground in the tunnels of Telegram, or WhatsApp or private emails are behind us āforgetting what lies behind, WEĀ press forwardā https://biblehub.com/philippians/3-13.htmĀ Dearest Atarah, please speak to your husband about moving forward and your plan and schedule to keep those coming here for HOPE are spiritually fed so that by the time I come here on my side of the world and itās already noon on your side of the world I can focus my attention on giving my Darling praise, thankfulness, and gratitude for you and this ministry, and in his selecting YOU. https://biblehub.com/hebrews/13-17.htm
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Thank you for sharing this for me to have a better understanding and I’m glad that this can be used for good to help other LMF. I have been seeking Him after reading this and He helped me to post something today which I am trusting Him and will continue to seek Him to show me if He wants me to continue posting more on todays topic, the schedule and plan.
Kristine I loved what you shared about us coming back to our old paths. It is a fear that I have faced for so long and I can see through your praise that this a walk most of us have to do. Although we know this is a very powerful principle that keeps peace everywhere and with everyone, it is not so easy to put in practice and remember all the time specially when we feel someone is attacking us.
I constantly need to ask my Beloved for wisdom when I feel like I need to say something or make my point so my spirit can stay quiet trusting on Him and seeing Him acting on my behalf. Just before the end of the year, my sister called my mum and made her very upset at the point my mum called me to complaint. My husband led me at that time to listen to her and tell her that we need to recognize that most of the battles belong to God and He will fight for us, so we need to keep calm and wait as most circumstances are solved without us doing anything. I was surprised to know that those words were kept in my mum’s heart applying the principle of winning without a word and now my sister is in very good terms with her again.
My dearest Kristine, it is always a blessing and a encouragement to read your praises. The principle of Won without Words became so real to me on my journey last year. Not just keeping quiet, but to talk to our Heavenly Husband about it and then following His guidance. I’ve seen this principle, as well as “Gentle and Quiet Spirit” turning situations around so many times during the custody journey I am on at the moment.
He just reminded me of another verse I read this morning: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1C134
Yes Adina,
the principle “Won Without a Word” is sure one of the things that i find hard to do. The flesh is quick present to react on the attack. But it is going better everytime. Thanks to my HH. What means that the healing of our heart is becoming bigger and bigger. O, how wonderfull would it be if we will be carefree, because of His loveā¤that would be our defend.
Thank you for sharing that verse, it s a beautifull one.