Name: |
Ruvy Tanoy |
Country: |
USA |
What language do you speak? |
English |
I'm here: |
Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
Yes |
How did you find our ministry? |
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
This is my second time in your website. The first time was when I was in desperate need for God to restore my marriage. The book helped me to grow closer to God and to seek Him wholeheartedly. I did find a church where I served for few months and I stopped coming to your site. I decided to finally leave that church and to come back here for encouragement and fellowship with likeminded women, weâre still separated, my husband and I finally have a wonderful friendship and I believe weâre close to restoration. |
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
Thank you God for drawing me out of the water, bringing me true repentance and giving me wisdom and knowledge. And a heart to truly trust in the power of God. |
In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
Before commenting, remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2Â Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
âEvery fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.â 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end:
"Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Dear Ruvy, welcome back! I am grateful to be here with all the like-minded brides and glad to know that you have a wonderful friendship with your EH.
At this time I want to encourage you with this verse – “There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heavenâ A time to give birth and a time to die; A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted. A time to kill and a time to heal; A time to tear down and a time to build up.” Ecclesiastes 3:1-6
I also want to encourage you to hope in the Lord and Him ONLY. Many of us found Him to be our Heavenly Husband and therefore not lack in anything. Please consider journaling this lesson and “taste and see for yourself how good He is” –
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d22-heavenly-husband/
My husband was once living away from home. Although heartbroken, it gave me so much more time to spend and get to know the Lord. He is always there for us, even when we don’t feel His presence. During that time, He cared for me and has made me be able to feel more of His love each day. He wants to show you His love, He wants you to share His unconditional love with others, because His love has the power to heal everything.
I am so glad to hear that you found the RYM book helpful and that you are growing closer to Him. I’m happy that He has led you here and that you are finding encouragement and fellowship through this website and are able to fellowship with like-minded women. It seems that the Lord is already softening your husband’s heart by you two having a great friendship now. Please continue to seek Him wholeheartedly and know that He is always with you.
Before my restoration the chapter from the Wise Woman Book helped me tremendously. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ and chapters from the WW are in audio if you need to listen while driving, as I enjoyed.
Also if you havenât already started please do the courses and journal, as they will help renew your mind. https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/.
âThe Lord is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those whose spirits have been crushed.â Ps3418
Ruvy,
Iâm glad you have come back for further encouragement. It truly is a blessing to have this site and all the resources available to help encourage us along our journeys. Your HH is giving you such a gift of peace and comfort during this time as you draw closer to Him. Keep your eyes on Him and know everything will come together in His Perfect timing
âHe lets me rest in green meadows; he leads me beside peaceful streams.â
ââPsalms⏠â23âŹ:â2⏠âNLTâŹâŹ