💔MM: Wrote him a letter in US

Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, remember to:

    1. Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
    2. Keep it SHORT.
    3. Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
    4. Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
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Country:
United States
What language do you speak?
English
I'm here:
Seeking restoration for my marriage.
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation.
Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me.
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?"
No
How did you find our ministry?
Online search
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship?
My husband and I have been married 25 years. He had a heart attack about a year ago. He got very depressed and then said he didn’t want to be married anymore. He moved out seven months ago. A few months ago, he finally told me that over 20 years ago, a coworker of mine wrote him a letter and said that we had an affair. That is not true. He was obviously just trying to break us up. My husband never told me about the letter until now. He said the reason he is not coming back is because he can’t get over it and he can’t trust me. he just told me yesterday that he wants to move forward with dissolving the marriage. That’s why I am coming to you for help. He won’t believe me, but I never did those things, and he won’t get any help or Prayer.
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him.
Oh Lord. You know my heart. Transform me into the wife you created me to be. Turn my husband’s heart and bring him home. Thank you, Lord.
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Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time.
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4 thoughts on “💔MM: Wrote him a letter in US”

  1. Dear Bride, I encourage you start by reading the restoration book. When I read the book for the first time, I understood why the crisis happened and it gave me an action plan to walk with the Lord in fighting this battle.
    “Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the LORD will bring you today.” Exodus 14:13
    We have a Lord who loves us and fights for us. Is He your Lord? Would you take Him as your Heavenly Husband? I encourage you to journal this lesson –
    https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d22-heavenly-husband/
    “Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!” Isaiah 30:18

  2. My husband and I have been together for 26 years. We have had our marriage restored even though he left and said he loved me but wasn’t in love with me. I encourage you to read the Restore Your Marriage Book. Day 1 Chapter 1 “My Beloved” – HopeAtLast.com It was a real eye opener to me and I couldn’t wait to apply all the principles I read.
    I was filled with pain, sadness, and bitterness. I was completely heartbroken. But the Lord welcomed me, took care of me, transformed me, and has given me more of His love every day. And that is what He wants to give you. His love has the power to heal everything. If you let Him mold you and transform you into the woman, He has called you to be, the results will amaze you.

    Before my restorations the chapter from the RYM and Wise Woman Book helped me tremendously. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ Also please do the courses and journal, as they will help renew your mind. https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/

    “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Exodus 14:14. I pray that you find and embrace His love. 💕

    “For your Husband is your Maker, whose name is the Lord of hosts; and your Redeemer is He who is called the God of the whole earth.”

    Please know that you can post and encourage with any praises you may want to give to Him. https://encouragingwomen.org/

  3. Dear Bride,

    I would first encourage you to read the RYM book. It will help you to see why this is happening and how God is using this trial to transform you. I have a restored marriage after being separated for over 2 years. The principles you will learn will be important to continue following the rest of your life. The Bible truly is the only guide that will lead us to the abundant life that He has planned for you. Use this time to get closer to your HH. Let him make the changes in your life as you sit back and bask in His Love.

    “Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you.”
    ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭37‬:‭5‬ ‭NLT‬‬

    “Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying.”
    ‭‭Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭12‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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