Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
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| Country: |
| USA |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking healing for myself—I am NOT interested in restoring any relationship. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Husband has remarried. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Online |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My husband remarried and has 3 children with the OW. He does not allow any contact with our 2 children. My EH thinks I'm mentally ill, thinks I try to turn children against him, parenting snd communication differences, financial differences. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Dear HH, I am very unhappy. I don't know what to do except focus on my relationship with you. I don't know if you want to restore my marriage with EH who has remarried and has 3 children with OW or another relationship. I just know I'm not happy. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Custody issues. Suicidal. Depressed. Abused or molested as a child. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
Dear bride. The Lord love you unconditional. The Lord want to take your tears and sadness away. He wants to replace your unhappiness with happiness and joy. Give everything to the Lord. Let Him take control. Let go and let Him.
1 John 4:16 NIV
[16] And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.
Jeremiah 29:12-13 NIV
[12] Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. [13] You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
Psalms 30:11 NIV
[11] You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,
My heart aches when I read that you are unhappy and have gone through so many trials in your life and marriage. I’m so sorry for you! What pain and sadness for your children if they do not see their mother. How difficult that there is constant struggle in your life.
But you know, I’m so very grateful that God brought you here.
God has heard your cry for help!! He wants to heal your life and bring you close to Him again! Yes, He wants to be your Heavenly Husband, He looks forward to a deep, tender and faithful friendship with you. I’m so glad you long for Him too!
God has a special plan for your life, a good plan!
Just read what it says in His word.
For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “With these plans I intend your happiness, not your unhappiness. I want to give you a future and new hope again. If you pray to Me, I will listen. You will find Me if you seek Me and sincerely expect it from Me. Jeremiah 29:11-13
You have a desire to focus on your relationship with Him. That’s the very best thing you can do. Seek Him and He will heal you from all your pain.
I want to encourage you to take the lessons below so you can begin to focus on your relationship with Him.
1. https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
2. https://loveatlast.org/fc/living-the-abundant-life/
Ask and it will be given to you; Seek and you shall find; knock and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. Matthew 7:7
This in His promise for you, if you seek Him you will find Him!
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Mijn hart doet pijn als ik lees dat je ongelukkig bent en al zoveel beproevingen hebt meegemaakt in je leven en huwelijk. Ik vindt het zo erg voor je! Wat een pijn en verdriet ook voor je kinderen als ze hun moeder niet zien. Wat moeilijk dat er steeds weer strijd is in je leven.
Maar weet je, ik ben zo ontzettend dankbaar dat God jouw hier heeft gebracht.
God heeft jou hulpgeroep gehoord!! Hij wil jou leven gaan genezen en je weer dicht bij Hem brengen! Ja, Hij wil jou Hemelse Man zijn, Hij ziet uit naar een diepe, tedere en trouwe vriendschap met jou. Ik ben zo blij dat jij ook naar Hem verlangt!
God heeft een speciaal plan met jou leven, een goed plan!
Lees maar wat er staat in Zijn woord.
Want Ik weet welke plannen Ik voor u heb,’ zegt de HERE. ‘Met deze plannen heb Ik uw geluk voor ogen, niet uw ongeluk. Ik wil u weer een toekomst en nieuwe hoop geven. Als u tot Mij bidt, zal Ik luisteren. U zult Mij vinden als u Mij zoekt en het oprecht van Mij verwacht. Jeremia 29: 11-13
Je hebt het verlangen om je te gaan concentreren om je relatie met Hem. Dat is het allerbeste wat je kunt doen. Zoek Hem en Hij zal je genezen van al je pijn.
Ik wil je aanmoedigen om de onderstaande lessen te gaan volgen zodat je je kan gaan concentreren op je relatie met Hem.
1. https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
2. https://loveatlast.org/fc/living-the-abundant-life/
Bidt en u zal gegeven worden; zoekt en gij zult vinden; klopt en u zal opengedaan worden. Want een ieder, die bidt, ontvangt, en wie zoekt, vindt, en wie klopt, hem zal opengedaan worden. Mattheus 7:7
Dit in Zijn belofte voor jou, als je Hem zoekt zal je Hem vinden!
Dear bride,
My heart is moved for your crisis situation. It is terrible to read how much sadness and despair you are experiencing at this moment in your life. As a mother, I can understand that missing your children and fighting for them can cause depression. So heavy that you no longer know what to do. I have been there. I am therefore very pleased that you have completed the questionnaire. Your Heavenly Beloved 💞 has seen your tears and will answer your prayers. You will be completely healed. He has already started doing that. I therefore await with great joy all the praise reports that you will send in from now on. For Him nothing is impossible. Much Love 🌹
Among the many blessed lessons of encouragement, there are two chapters that I would like to share with you for first encouragement:
1). https://loveatlast.org/his-bride/
2). https://loveatlast.org/ryr/c6/ “Tell it to Your Husband”
I agree with bride Hanna to start reading the two books she recommended to you. With special attention to
chapters 6 and 10 of the first book of the “Finding the Abundant Life”.
Psalms 34:19 NIV
[19] The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all;
https://psalm.bible/psalm-34-19
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