Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
“Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end: "Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
Country |
Island. Mauritius |
What language do you speak |
French |
I am here: |
I am seeking to restore my marriage. |
What is your current marital situation? |
Married, and my husband lives with me. |
Have you read the book “How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?” |
Yes |
How did you find our ministry? |
By the help of the Holy Spirit |
Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
Hello, I have been married for 20 years and we have three boys. I found out my husband was cheating on me with his co-worker. I was quarrelsome and violent towards him when I discovered his story. But after reading the book I stopped everything... The situation is getting worse since the colleague comes to pick him up every day in front of our house and they dropped my eldest son off at his work. They no longer hide and appear to everyone as a couple. My husband reproaches me for not being a decent woman... Because I don't work and I depend on him. |
Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, opening your heart to Him. |
Lord I ask you for forgiveness because I did not build my home on you but that I idolized my husband to the point of forgetting you. I pray to you this morning to change me and that I regain my intimacy with you . I place him in your hands as well as this woman I forgive them in the name of Jesus for all the evil. That they have done to me. Heal me of his inner wounds restore the home of my parents and his parents Forgive me for my mistakes. |
So that we can serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
Custody issues. Abused or assaulted as a child. |
Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your marriage assessment from the choices below. |
By posting your questionnaire Privately to a designated IOU Marriage Ministry student. Sample |
Pays |
Île. Maurice |
Quelle langue parlez-vous |
Francais |
Je suis là: |
Je cherche à restaurer mon mariage. |
Quelle est ta situation conjugale actuelle? |
Mariée, et mon mari vit avec moi. |
Avez-vous lu le livre "Comment Dieu peut et va restaurer votre mariage?" |
Oui |
Comment avez-vous trouvé notre ministère ? |
Par l'aide su Saint Esprit |
Maintenant, veuillez nous parler de votre situation et pourquoi vous êtes venu nous demander de l'aide et qu'est-ce que votre mari/partenaire a dit comme étant les principaux problèmes ou problèmes qu'il a avec vous et votre relation ? |
Bonjour, je suis mariée depuis 20ans et nous avons trois garçons. J'ai découvert que mon mari me trompait avec sa collègue. J'étais querelleuse,violente envers lui en découvrant son histoire. Mais après avoir lue le livre j'ai tout arrêté... La situation empire puisque la collègue vient le chercher tous les jours devant chez nous et ils ont déposé mon fils aîné à son travail. Ils ne se cachent plus et s'affiche au yeux de tous comme un couple. Mon mari me reproche que je ne sois pas une femme de niveau... Car je ne travaille pas et je dépends de lui. |
Veuillez utiliser l'espace ci-dessous pour simplement parler à Dieu, dans vos propres mots, en lui ouvrant votre cœur. |
Seigneur je te demande pardon par ce que je n ai pas bâtis mon foyer sur toi mais que j"ai idolatré mon mari au point de t'oublier. Je te prie ce matin de me. Changer moi et que je retrouve mon intimité avec toi. Je le remets entre tes mains ainsi que cette femme je les pardonnes au nom de Jésus pour tout le mal. Qu'ils m'ont fait. Guéris moi de ses blessures interieures restaure le foyer de mes parents et ses parents Pardonne moi pou mes fautes. |
Afin que nous puissions vous servir plus efficacement, veuillez vérifier quelles préoccupations s'appliquent à vous : |
Problèmes de garde. Abusé ou agressé dans son enfance. |
Enfin, veuillez choisir comment vous souhaitez que nous procédions à votre évaluation de mariage parmi les choix ci-dessous. |
En publiant votre questionnaire En privé à un étudiant désigné du ministère du mariage IOU. Échantillon |
Bonjour Bien-aimée, tu as fait la bonne chose de ne plus attiser les disputes. Cela peut être tellement destructeur surtout pour toi. Comme toi, mon ex-mari fut mon idôle, pour commencer mon chemin de restauration, je me suis d’abord repenti de cela auprès de mon époux celeste. J’ai compris qu’IL m’avait fait vivre cela parce qu’IL voulait parler à mon coeur. Il dit dans sa parole, Mais ce que j’ai contre toi, c’est que tu as abandonné ton premier amour. Apocalypse 2:4 Je te partage également ce verset, Jacques 5
…10Prenez, mes frères, pour modèles de souffrance et de patience les prophètes qui ont parlé au nom du Seigneur. 11Voici, nous disons bienheureux ceux qui ont souffert patiemment. Vous avez entendu parler de la patience de Job, et vous avez vu la fin que le Seigneur lui accorda, car le Seigneur est plein de miséricorde et de compassion.
Aussi, lis ce livre de “comment Dieu peut restaurer ton mariage” https://hopeatlast.com/c1/, lis également le livre de la femme sage https://hopeatlast.com/c3/
Je ne peux manquer de te partager ce chapitre -ci pour t’encourager : https://loveatlast.org/fc/living-the-abundant-life/chapter-1-could-this-be-his-plan/
Pour finir, je te laisse avec cet encouragement: Josué 1:7 Fortifie-toi seulement et aie bon courage, en agissant fidèlement selon toute la loi que Moïse, mon serviteur, t’a prescrite; ne t’en détourne ni à droite ni à gauche, afin de réussir dans tout ce que tu entreprendras.
Hello Beloved, you have done the right thing to stop stirring up arguments. It can be so destructive, especially for you. Like you, my ex-husband was my idol, to begin my journey of restoration, I first repented of this to my heavenly spouse. I understood that He had made me go through this because He wanted to speak to my heart. He says in his word, But what I have against you is that you have forsaken your first love. Revelation 2:4 And I share this verse with you also, James 5
… 10 Take, my brethren, as models of suffering and patience the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. 11Behold, blessed are those who have suffered patiently. You have heard of Job’s patience, and you have seen the end that the Lord gave him, for the Lord is full of mercy and compassion.
Also, read this book of “How God Can Restore Your Marriage” https://hopeatlast.com/c1/, also read the book of the wise woman https://hopeatlast.com/c3/
I cannot fail to share with you this chapter to encourage you: https://loveatlast.org/fc/living-the-abundant-life/chapter-1-could-this-be-his-plan/
Finally, I leave you with this encouragement: Joshua 1:7 Only be strong and be of good courage, acting faithfully according to all the law which Moses my servant commanded you; Do not turn away from it to the right or to the left, so that you may succeed in all that you undertake.
Dear Bride, It is terrible and sad to read that you have found yourself in what we call a “crisis” situation at this time in your life. However, I am also very pleased that my Lord has led you to this Ministry. Because it is possible to see your marriage restored. I see you have read the Restore Your Marriage book. Chapter 5 is called “Your First Love”. That is the One who loves you so much and wants you closer to Him. Whatever your husband or anyone else says about you is not the truth. Now is the time for you to build your life on the Rock of truth so that when God turns your husband’s heart back again, your life will be full of blessings with your First Love.
I would encourage you to start with Course 1. After reading the lesson, follow up by pouring your heart out in your personal journal. This will help you grow your intimate relationship with your Heavenly Husband.
For the most difficult period I would like to give you the page below.
https://hopeatlast.com/crisis-corner/
He will be the sure foundation for your times,
a rich store of salvation and wisdom and knowledge;
the fear of the Lord is the key to this treasure. https://www.bible.com/nl/bible/111/ISA.33.NIV
Chère mariée, je suis d’accord avec ce qu’Anna et Kristine ont partagé et j’aimerais vous encourager à commencer par les cours et les leçons qu’elles ont partagés.
Je voudrais également vous encourager à déverser votre cœur sur le Seigneur, votre Bien-Aimé, dans le journal au bas de chaque leçon. Nous tous qui avons fait ce voyage pouvons témoigner à quel point tenir un journal nous a aidé à guérir et à changer. J’aimerais partager avec vous une page que vous pouvez lire sur le journaling : https://hopeatlast.com/c1/spectator/
“Car les yeux du Seigneur parcourent toute la terre, pour apporter un fort soutien à ceux dont le cœur est irréprochable[a] envers lui.” 2 Chroniques 16:9
Dear Bride, I agree with what Anna and Kristine shared and would like to encourage you to start with the courses and lessons they shared.
I would also like to encourage you to pour your heart out to the Lord, your Beloved in the journal forms at the bottom of each lesson. All of us who’s been on this journey can testify how much journalling helped us to heal and change. I would like to share a page with you that you can read through about journalling: https://hopeatlast.com/c1/spectator/
“For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless[a] toward him.” 2 Chronicles 16:9
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”