Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
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Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Country: |
| uSA |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Married and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| I am currently reading the book. |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I have not appreciated my husband. I have been a bad wife and he no longer can stand to be near me. I have tried to change, but never understood myself well enough listened to God well enough to change. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Lord, I am so sorry I tried tings my way so many times instead of listening to you and your word. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
Dear, I know how you’re feeling. The heartbreak and despair. I was full of pain, sadness, bitterness. He can restore your marriage. Just be still and give all your concerns to Him, the One who truly cares and wants to take your pain away.
His Word also says: “He is our protection and our strength, He always helps in times of trouble. So, we will not be afraid if the earth shakes, or if the mountains fall into the sea. We will not fear even if the oceans roar and foam, or if the mountains shake at the raging sea.” Ps46ICB
I encourage you to finish the RYM book and if you haven’t already started please do the courses and journal, as they will help renew your mind. https://hopeatlast.com/c1/ . I would also like to encourage you to let go of your situation into the Lord’s hands while you focus on your relationship with Him, making Him your First Love. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-2-chapter-2-first-love/.
Before my restorations the chapter from the RYM and Wise Woman Book helped me tremendously. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ & https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-8-chapter-3-a-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/ His love has the power to heal everything. Let Him mold you and transform you.
God can restore your marriage, even if you’re the only one pursuing restoration. Just be still and give all your concerns to the One who truly cares and wants to take your pain away. The Bible says: “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Ex14:14. 💕
Dear Bride, welcome! When I first came, I didn’t know I needed changes and when I realized I did, I didn’t know how to change. That’s when I was taught to stay in the words every day. Are you reading Psalms and Proverbs every day? Follow this guide and let God’s words change you:
https://encouragingwomen.org/psalms-proverbs/
“Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.” Psalms 34:5
I encourage you to also journal this lesson –
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d19-gods-makeover/
“Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 1:6
Dear Bride,
I know you are hurting very much. I too fell and lost my marriage because of my unfaithfulness to the Lord, my HH. But praise the Lord that you are seeking Him now as your EH is still in the home. Please continue to read the RYM book and begin to apply the principles you learn to please the Lord. This is about your relationship with Him. He wants to be first in your heart. While you focus on yourself and take your eyes off your EH and marriage, God can begin to work on both of you and bring you back together as one in His good timing. Be sure to journal, pray, and renew your mind with His word daily this will enable you to stay the course on this long and narrow road.
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”
Matthew 6:33 NLT
“Then if my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and restore their land.”
2 Chronicles 7:14 NLT
“Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.”
Isaiah 41:10 NLT
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