Lianne
FL
Married
I recommend the RYM book and courses to any woman who will listen to me. I’ve already shared the site with four women and bought the Wise Woman book for one of them. I even sent my brother to the men’s site! You owe it to yourself to check it out. You will be so grateful you did.
I definitely recommend the By the Word of Their Testimony books! It’s such an encouragement reading about other women’s “impossible” situations that the Lord turned around. Nothing is impossible for Him. When I started on my journey I searched high and low for testimonies of restored marriages because I wanted to know if what God was asking me to do, fight for my marriage, was actually doable. I’d never heard of the concept before and wanted proof and encouragement. These books provided just that and I knew that if God had done it for them, He’d do it for me too.
I found RMI around mid October. I heard of it through another marriage ministry. I first found out about the book and then read about the Fellowship. I was quite intrigued about a church without walls and wanted to know more. I ordered the RYM book and started to read it. That’s when I found out about the courses. I began on November 9th and instantly began to see changes in myself as the Lord began to work in me. At that point, I was 5 months into my journey. Everything my HH had been teaching me about just became clearer and clicked. I felt I was no longer alone and had other sisters walking with me and agreeing with me for my miracle. I began my journey seeking restoration for my marriage but ended up gaining restoration of my relationship with my First Love. I learned to truly let go and came to fully trust in my HH to handle all things for me. Just 10 days after starting the courses, my EH broke it off with the OW. He said he’d lost interest in her because of me. I had listened to the Lord when He told me to be intimate with my EH, to love him unconditionally, to forgive, to be humble and quiet, to let Him be my Defender, to put Him first, etc. My EH said he loves me like this but is afraid I’ll hurt him again. I was the prodigal twice before. I know the enemy is putting doubts in his mind, but I believe in the promises the Lord gave me and I believe our restoration is under way. This may be a long and painful journey but I’ve committed myself to my HH and will continue to be obedient to Him no matter what happens.
“Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord will fulfill His promises to her” Luke 1:45. This Word carried me through some of my toughest moments as it encouraged me. The Lord sees what you’re going through and wants to do a great work in you. Believe in Him and make up your mind to be obedient without question. He will Honor your faith and will come through for you.
Lisa
United States
Separated
I could not believe how accurately RYM described my situation. I just knew that I was such a good wife and it was all my EH fault. But now I can see the error of my ways and I am able to help other women stay off the path of destruction that tore my house down.
WOTT is so encouraging on my worse days those testimonies were definitely a beam of light. Seeing how other women overcame their situation gave me so much hope. It is do good to the Lord turn around so many situations.
My husband's heart was completely hardened toward me and though we hd a brief reconciliation is has grown hard again. But I have hope. The Holy Spirit was telling me to get back on course an I have found purpose in helping other women before their marriages get to this point of destruction so that always lifts my spirits.
I pray you give yourself completely to this journey. Cast all your cares and worries onto your HH. He will turn the heart of the king when he is ready.
Aracely
California
Separated
I would recommend every woman who is in a crisis to read both these books. Even just reading the first chapter of RYM is life changing. I bought all the books and I am reading the chapters over and over. They are life changing!
The testimonies encouraged me to keep going. Each testimony had one thing I could relate to. I learned so much from them. One had my almost same exact story. They were amazing!
When I found you, my H had left and he was so angry. He could not event text back. He had been gone almost two months. My teenagers were angry, my daughter would not talk to him. Since I found the course and started reading the books, he is now coming around, I am not allowed to be here but he is coming here and my daughter has forgiven him. I apologized to him last week. I wasn't expecting a response, but he forgave me! I had no expectations as I was doing this strictly out of obedience . He still shares that he wants to "coparent" but I know his heart is being softened. He is stying in the home and in contact with his children. HE is texting me thank you and in contact with me. I know these are small steps, but they are huge! He is no longer cold or hurtful.
Dear sister, Be encouraged. The Lord is already working on your marriage and it will be restored! I hope you enjoy the course as much as I have. My life has been transformed and it is thanks to this course and finding the RYM courses/books and fellowship!