| Name: |
| Cloe in Canada |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Divorce filed and my husband does NOT live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I was not a good wife and his parents hates me |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Lord, may You help me to be faithful to You and to what you have called me to do. May You help me stop doubting what You placed in my heart. May I be completely satisfied with you |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
| Are you interested in learning how you can help other women who are in a marriage crisis as a Marriage Minister ? CLICK on the IMAGE that describes you right now. |
| Yes, maybe in the future . Please send me the information to pray about it. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
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Before commenting, remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
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"Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Dear precious Cloe, I know and believe our Darling Lord is using this crisis in your life to draw you closer to Him.
“He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside quiet waters. He restores my soul.” P23:3
Because a divorce was filed I want to encourage you to read the lesson on divorce filed: https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d8-divorced-filed/
I want to encourage you to to move closer and closer to our wonderful Lord. It was life changing for me and I want you to experience our wonderful Lord’s Everlasting Love (https://loveatlast.org/) and remember although a divorce has been filed: “For nothing will be impossible with God.” L1:37
Thank you so much! I really appreciate this! I hope to grow I just really need guidance. I’m really thankful for your kind words
Dear precious C, you will grow as long as you take our Darling Lord’s hand and allow Him to lead you – https://loveatlast.org/living-lessons/week-3-he-leads-me/
Cloe, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. I know what it’s like to be in a marriage where your spouse is living elsewhere. It can be very painful and lonely. I want you to know that you are not alone. There are many people here who have been through similar experiences.
I am glad to hear that you are turning to God for strength and support. He is the only one who can truly understand what you are going through and help you through it. I encourage you to continue to read His Word. Start our courses (https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/), pour your heart into your lesson forms and journal what you learn.
I also recommend that you read I would like to encourage you to let go (https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/). This is not letting go like the world teaches, but letting your situation go into the Lord’s hands while you focus on your relationship with the Lord, making Him your First Love.
“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Exodus 14:14.
Thank you so much! I just really need help. i can feel my heart hardening and I’m starting to become bitter and indifferent. I was on the verge of giving up but I know that is not what He wants that’s why He led me here. Please bear with me. I really need all the help I can get. Thank you
Dear, I can understand your pain over rejection, I suffered it too but today I thank the Lord for everything I experienced on my journey of restoration that led me to the abundant life I live today, He has been my best medicine, the answer to all my needs, I can’t imagine my life without Him after knowing Him in this special way. Dear, you are facing this new opportunity in your life to head down the narrow path that leads to [abundant] life.
Just as I was reading your questionnaire, my Beloved told me: “When a person’s ways are pleasing to the Lord,
He causes even his enemies to make peace with him” P167 and “The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.” S372324 Isn’t it wonderful? Once we accept His gift of grace for us and make Him our Lord, He Himself takes it upon Himself to help us when He puts the Holy Spirit within us to do His will. It’s as simple as believing him and embracing him completely with love.
The addition to the best achievement of this journey that was THE for me, was the marriage restoration which began after reading the courses as Hope and Janinne recommended starting with Course 1 https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/ All Courses are a great blessing and much more when we write our journal https://hopeatlast.com/my-restoration-journey-notes/ pouring out our hearts to the Lord so that He cleanses us and gives us the opportunity to know Him intimately! Be sure to visit the blog https://encouragingwomen.org/pr to stay in touch and be encouraged by the testimonies of other ladies who are going through the same journey as you.
Thank you for your kind and gentle words. I was doing well at first and was always praying until I got to the point that I feel like I was losing hope and I’ve become indifferent. I see myself becoming overcome by pain that I started being mean to people and I’m growing bitter. That’s the reason why I reached out today. I’ve been overthinking my marriage and I just wanted the easy way out but by doing that I’m just pushing my EH from committing sins and guilt, hurt and pain is never a good mix. I just needed guidance from people who went through it. I just need help. Please help. Thank you
Your help is in this way my dear, take His hand, starting with the lessons in which He will give you wisdom, love, and peace. If you are in a crisis please read: https://hopeatlast.com/crisis-corner/ He is your BEST counselor https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=isaias+9%3A6&version=AMPC