Laurie
Canada
Separated
I would recommend the book to anyone who is truly wants to restore their marriage, they need to find God and his word. It is a i difficult path to walk but would recommend it to anyone that really want to walk it.
Ohh Ladies, my marriage is like so many others out there. I know from the day my husband told me that he was leaving it was from God. I knew he was telling me that I need to change. My husband was forever telling me how much he loved me and would call me just to play a song he heard on the radio or while it was playing to tell me it reminded him of me. This was happening right up to December. Then is a strange twist of fate he told me on Christmas day he was leaving and was going to date his Boss. He dated for oh about a week then moved in to her house with her. I know that God has called me to change and to look at myself. My husband is not the issue I am. Do not get me wrong, he has plenty to answer to but not to me to God alone.
Please stick to the path and understand the principles of this book, it truly is the way. Good luck on your journey and my prayers are with you.
Pamela
SC
Married
I would recommend this ministry to anyone. I would emphasizes that the lessons here may sound crazy and out of touch with current society, I would also say that the fight is hard, but it is worth it, you will become a new woman and have a new/stronger relationship with God.
My husband told me he wanted out, couple weeks later I found out about OW. He told me he was leaving, he did for couple weeks, then came back. That's when I found this ministry, and I started applying God's principles. I'm still fighting, the OW still on the picture (they work together), but my husband hasn't left, we go on dates, he has told me he loves me, and I can tell you that is God's doing.
My friend, you are about to enter a wonderful journey, it won't feel like it at first, but you will soon experience peace and joy in your heart when you find your connection with the Lord. The road is tough, I strongly encourage you to get index cards so you can write the verses that touch your heart since day one, those cards have become my weapon, and I have accumulated a whole artillery, I use them against the evil thoughts and anxiety that constantly attack. Be patience, remember the Lord is listening, and you will feel his power every time you pray, I will pray for you, so you can become the woman He needs you to be to take care of the husband he chose for you.
Juanita
TX
Divorced
My first words would be not to say another word to your spouse, nothing no matter what he is saying. I would ask her if she wanted her marriage to be saved, I would also tell her that divorce and separation are never the answers under no circumstance. I would explain to her the reason for both. Yes, I would recommend this site to her.
When I came here my husband had just moved out. We had tension over several months. What I didn't know was there was an OW. i acted badly after he moved out, within weeks divorced paper were filed and that was the end of our marriage without any talking.
Hello, I would like you to know that God can and will restore your marriage. Marriage is God's idea not man so he wants to see you and your husband married for a lifetime. Your journey begins, expect more than a restored marriage, expect a relationship that matters the most. You are next.
Diane
TX
Divorced
How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage is the best book I have ever read other than the Bible. I wish I had it before my marriage ended. If God's Word says it, it is truth! So many books, even 'christian' books come with the authors' perspective on things. This book is what God says! I would rather listen to Him than anyone else!!
I posted an online prayer request in one of my darkest days. I was desperate. Not a whole lot has changed in my marriage situation, but I have changed.
I wish I could go back and not try to find out and understand what was happening based on what others in the world said. Even those that I turned to were wise believers, they were in the Word. I thought I was getting biblical advise. Please realize, just because someone is a christian, if they have not been in this situation, they most likely have never search the Word or asked God for guidance regarding marriage troubles. I have always known that if you need guidance, go to someone who has been there. Someone who has no children can not give advice on raising children. Someone who has never had their spouse leave can not give restoration advice. Stay focused. Do not listen to anyone but God!