April
Florida
Husband is remarried
This is the second most important book to me right now, of course the Bible is first. "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage" is very instrumental in allowing me to get through my RJ with ease and comfort. This book dispels all the rumors, puts many things in perspective and provides a great influence for getting closer to Him and allowing your bible to be your ultimate source. I have read the book a few times and I plan to read it again soon, as I will be taking a few days off work for relaxation. I would recommend this book to any woman throughout any stage of restoration and any woman seeking to renew their minds.
When I came back to RM again, I was in deep despair. I did not know what to do with myself. The Lord had given me a chance at restoring my marriage not that long ago. It was a beautiful thing. I blew it, falling into the enemy's tricks and schemes. This is why I found myself not only separated, and not only divorced... but with a re-married FH. I needed to change a lot. But I did not really grasp that concept until the second time I started my RJ. I believe that I have changed and I see the changes in myself physically, in my heart and in my mind. The hate wall had come down. We don't talk or text much, but the lines of communication are open (as my FH stated). The resources that you have provided were truly needed and caused me to discover that it was The Lord that separated me from my spouse. I needed work. I still do. I am a work in progress. But I am proud to say that because of the Partners at RM, I am in a much better place and enjoying a much closer walk to The Lord.
It was very easy for me to decide to sponsor 3 women. Helping others is always second nature to me. Prior to my RJ, I had a heart to help others, but this journey has accelerated that desire. When someone else benefits the way I have been benefited, it excites me. Knowing that The Lord is working through all of us to help others is wonderful. "You will be enriched in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God." -2 Corinthians 9:11 It has not been easy for me to make it this far in my journey. I may or may not have a long way, but I know that I am not going to stop now. Yes, some days are not very good days, but regardless of what happens, I take comfort in knowing that my "Heavenly Husband" will never leave me nor forsake me. I am richly blessed and content. I encourage you to Let Go and Let God do the work. Everything will happen in his perfect timing. I have been a witness of this a few times before and I look forward to my next and final restoration. I know this because he will now forever be first in my life. Stand firm, persevere, have faith, read your bible, give freely and walk closer to The Lord. "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything...." -James 1:2-8
Francis
Arizona
Separated
I will tell them that the devil uses a lot of the same weapons to attach marriages and this lesson will guide us to go thru and lift us up.
my situation still the same as right now, which is separate and my husband is with OW. but I am believing in God, that HE will deliver me.
I just want to said: don't give up.
Crystal
Washington
Separated
I would tell any women, if you want to see a modern day miracle, read this book. Follow these principles, pray day and night. Give God your heart, and you, I promise see a miracle. Now, it may not be restoration of your marriage yet... But it will be a restoration of your mind, body and soul... Which is preparing you for your marriage resteration.
Broken, miserable and defeated. I could not fathom, that we could ever make it work. Now, I know Jesus hates divorce and it will work! But more than that, this is a journey. Journey of love and journey to save souls/
“Those who sow in tears shall reap with joyful shouting” (Ps. 126:5). I promise at the end of your lessons you will be with joyful shouting. When you feel weak, just read and reread your lessons. May god have his hand on your heart and mind. Much love to you
Kimberly
Wyoming
Separated
This book has been one of the biggest blessing in my life. The principles and lessons go so far beyond just marriage restoration. They are a life, heart, and soul restoration. No matter your situation, no matter how far gone or how good your marriage and life may seem, this book will help jump start a life and peace more beautiful than you can imagine.
When I was given the RYM book I was loosing everything. My husband was gone seeing and caring for another woman. I had kicked him out and was losing my home due to not being able to afford the rent. Having to live on the couch at my mom's with my two young boys. I was extremely lost, confused, and so very very hurt and broken. I lost 20+ pounds due to being so sick from the hurt that I couldn't eat even if I wanted to.
Ladies do Not let hopelessness fill any part of your heart. Our God is so much greater than Any circumstance. He loves you and he wants the absolute best for you and so do we. Turn to Him and let Him take over every area of your life. I promise you will not regret it. May love and peace be abundantly yours.