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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
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| Country |
| France |
| What language do you speak |
| French |
| I am here: |
| I am seeking to restore my marriage. |
| What is your current marital situation? |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. Filed for divorce, and my husband does NOT live with me.. |
| Have you read the book âHow God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?â |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| By searching on the Internet |
| Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| Incessant arguments, anger |
| Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, opening your heart to Him. |
| Lord, I want to do your will regarding my marriage. |
| So that we can serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Abused or assaulted as a child. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your marriage assessment from the choices below. |
| By posting your questionnaire Privately to a designated IOU Marriage Ministry student. Sample |
| Pays |
| France |
| Quelle langue parlez-vous |
| Francais |
| Je suis lĂ : |
| Je cherche Ă restaurer mon mariage. |
| Quelle est ta situation conjugale actuelle? |
| Séparée: Je suis mariée, mais mon mari ne vit pas avec moi. Demande de divorce déposée, et mon mari ne vit PAS avec moi.. |
| Avez-vous lu le livre "Comment Dieu peut et va restaurer votre mariage?" |
| Oui |
| Comment avez-vous trouvé notre ministÚre ? |
| En cherchant sur Internet |
| Maintenant, veuillez nous parler de votre situation et pourquoi vous ĂȘtes venu nous demander de l'aide et qu'est-ce que votre mari/partenaire a dit comme Ă©tant les principaux problĂšmes ou problĂšmes qu'il a avec vous et votre relation ? |
| Disputes incessantes, colĂšre |
| Veuillez utiliser l'espace ci-dessous pour simplement parler Ă Dieu, dans vos propres mots, en lui ouvrant votre cĆur. |
| Seigneur, je veux faire ta volonté en ce qui concerne mon mariage. |
| Afin que nous puissions vous servir plus efficacement, veuillez vérifier quelles préoccupations s'appliquent à vous : |
| Déprimée. Abusé ou agressé dans son enfance. |
| Enfin, veuillez choisir comment vous souhaitez que nous procédions à votre évaluation de mariage parmi les choix ci-dessous. |
| En publiant votre questionnaire En privĂ© Ă un Ă©tudiant dĂ©signĂ© du ministĂšre du mariage IOU. Ăchantillon |
ChĂšre mariĂ©e, je sais ce que ça fait de vivre avec des disputes constantes et de lutter dans son mariage, la derniĂšre annĂ©e de mon mariage a Ă©tĂ© exactement comme ça. Mais il y a de lâespoir car rien nâest impossible Ă Dieu !
Je vois que tu es actuellement dĂ©primĂ©. Je vous encourage Ă suivre chaque jour le plan de lecture des Psaumes et Proverbes qui m’a vraiment aidĂ© Ă traverser les moments les plus difficiles : https://aidemaritale.com/les-psaumes-et-les-proverbes/
Ensuite, je recommanderais Ă©galement fortement le cours He Healed me parce que vous avez Ă©tĂ© maltraitĂ© lorsque vous Ă©tiez enfant, https://loveatlast.org/hhm/. Lisez chaque leçon, puis confiez votre cĆur au Seigneur dans votre journal, car c’est ce qui vous aidera Ă guĂ©rir. (https://hopeatlast.com/c1/spectator/)
Concentrez-vous dÚs maintenant sur votre relation avec le Seigneur et faites de Lui votre mari céleste. Permettez-lui de vous guérir, de vous transformer et de trouver la vie abondante pour laquelle il est mort pour vous donner. Remettez votre mariage entre ses mains et permettez-lui de travailler dans la situation pendant que vous vous concentrez sur lui et sur votre guérison.
“Le voleur ne vient que pour voler, tuer et dĂ©truire ; je suis venu pour qu’ils aient la vie et qu’ils l’aient en abondance.” Jean 10:10
« Ne crains rien, car tu ne seras pas honteux ; Et ne vous sentez pas humilié, car vous ne serez pas déshonoré ; Mais tu oublieras la honte de ta jeunesse,
Et tu ne te souviendras plus du reproche [déception] de ton veuvage.
« Car ton mari est ton CrĂ©ateur, dont le nom est l’Ăternel des armĂ©es ; Et votre RĂ©dempteur qui est appelĂ© le Dieu de toute la terre.
« Car le Seigneur vous a appelé,
Comme une Ă©pouse abandonnĂ©e et affligĂ©e d’esprit,
MĂȘme comme une Ă©pouse de jeunesse lorsqu’elle est rejetĂ©e,
Dit ton Dieu. (ĂsaĂŻe 54)
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Dear Bride, I know what it feels like to live with constant arguments and strive in your marriage, the last year of my marriage was exactly like that. But there is hope because nothing is impossible with God!
I see that you are currently depressed. I would like to encourage you to follow the Psalms and Proverbs reading plan each day which really helped me to get through the most difficult times: https://aidemaritale.com/les-psaumes-et-les-proverbes/
Then I would also highly recommend the He Healed me course because you were abused as a child, https://loveatlast.org/hhm/. Read through each lesson and then pour your heart out to the Lord in your journals because that is what will help you to heal. (https://hopeatlast.com/c1/spectator/)
Focus on your relationship with the Lord right now and make Him your Heavenly Husband. Allow Him to heal you and to transform you and to find the Abundant Life He died to give you. Surrender your marriage in His hands and allow Him to work in the situation while you focus on Him and your healing.
“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.” John 10:10
âFear not, for you will not be put to shame; And do not feel humiliated, for you will not be disgraced; But you will forget the shame of your youth,
And the reproach [disappointment] of your widowhood you will remember no more.
âFor your Husband is your Maker, Whose name is the Lord of hosts; And your Redeemer Who is called the God of all the earth.
â’For the Lord has called YOU,
Like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit,
Even like a wife of oneâs youth when she is rejected,’
Says your God.â (Isaiah 54)
merci pour tes conseils. j’ai commencĂ© Ă lire les psaumes et les proverbes.
Chere Mariee , je voudrais tencourager a ne pas baisser les bras. tout est possible a celui qui crois. Prend se moment pour te rapprocher du seigneur il est lepoux parfais , il veut guerir toutes tes blessures . Je ne sais pas si tu as lu le livre Comment Dieu peut et restaurera votre mariage , mais je tencourage a le lire afin detre enracinee dans sa parole et rester dans la foi. https://encouragingbookstore.com/languages/france/wrym-french/
Il y a egaleemnt un livre appelr facing divorce qui ma enorment aider a ne pas commetre plus derreur , le livre est en anglais . Si tu ne parle pas anglais dis le moi je te ferai un resumer .Lapplication des princpes citer dans se livre ont eu des effets positifs dans la vie de beaucoup , et conduis a des mariages restaurees alors que tout semblais perdu . Dieu a recompenser la foi de ses hommes et de ses femmes . Ce livre est essensiel Je te met le lien https://encouragingbookstore.com/women-resources/fd/
Aussi je voudrais te dire que Dieu est au controle se nest pas lennemi ni ton mari qui est au controle mais Dieu . Il a permis cela pour que tu te rapproche de lui pour te guerir de tes blessures et que tu devienne lepouse de son fils . Au moment voulu par lui il vous remettra ensemble ton mari et toi pour sa gloire. Ne desepere pas ma soeur tout va bien . Sa me fais penser a la sunamite qui est aller trouver Eli alors que son fils etais mort elle a dis a son mari que tout allais bien .« Et elle dit : Tout va bien. Et elle fit seller lâĂąnesse et dit Ă son jeune homme : MĂšne-la, et marche, ne tâarrĂȘte pas dans la course Ă moins que je ne te le dise » (2 Rois 4:23-24). Et sa foi nâa pas Ă©tĂ© déçue. Son fils lui a Ă©tĂ© rendu et la femme, tombant aux pieds de celui qui lui avait dit : « Prends ton fils », se prosterna en terre. Alors que nous somems parfais tenter de dire que tout va mal non je proclamme sur ta vie que tout va bien Mainteant et que tout ira Bien ma soeur . Hebreux 11;1 Or la foi est une ferme assurance des choses qu’on espĂšre, une dĂ©monstration de celles qu’on ne voit pas. Pour taider a devenir lepouse du seigneur et a trouver la vie abondante quil a prevue pour toi il y a un cours gratuit ici appeler trouver la vie abondante
https://aidemaritale.com/trouver-la-vie-abondante/chapitre-1-quest-ce-que-la-vie-abondante/
Sois benie et n’hesite pas si tu as des questions par rapport au livre facing divorce .
Dear Bride, I would like to encourage you not to give up. All things are possible to him who believes. Take this moment to draw closer to the Lord, he is the perfect bridegroom, he wants to heal all your wounds. I don’t know if you’ve read the book How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage, but I encourage you to read it so that you can be rooted in His word and stay in the faith.
https://encouragingbookstore.com/languages/france/wrym-french/ There is also a book called facing divorce that will help me not to make any more mistakes, the book is in English. If you don’t speak English, let me know and I’ll give you a summary. The application of the principles cited in this book have had positive effects in the lives of many, and lead to restored marriages when all seemed lost. God has rewarded the faith of His men and women. I put the link https://encouragingbookstore.com/women-resources/fd/ you
So I would like to tell you that God is in control, not the enemy, nor your husband who is in control, but God. He allowed this so that you would draw closer to Him to heal your wounds and become the wife of His son. At his own time, he will hand over you and your husband together for his glory. Don’t despair my sister, everything is fine. It reminds me of the shunammite woman who went to find Eli when her son was dead, she told her husband that everything was fine. And she said, “It’s all right.” And she saddled the donkey, and said to her young man, “Lead her, and walk, and do not stop in the race unless I tell you” (2 Kings 4:23-24). And his faith was not disappointed. Her son was restored to her, and the woman, falling at the feet of the one who had said to her, “Take your son,” prostrated herself on the ground. While we are trying to say that everything is bad, no, I proclaim on your life that everything is fine now and that everything will be fine, my sister. Hebrews 11; 1 Now faith is a firm assurance of things hoped for, a demonstration of things not seen. To help you become the Lord’s bride and find the abundant life He has planned for you, there is a free course here called Finding Abundant
Life https://aidemaritale.com/trouver-la-vie-abondante/chapitre-1-quest-ce-que-la-vie-abondante/
Be blessed and don’t hesitate if you have any questions about the book facing divorce.
Ma soeur bien-aimĂ©e, je comprends ce que tu vis. Je l’ai vĂ©cu des pendant des annĂ©es et mĂȘme aprĂšs le divorce, ça n’a pas arrĂȘtĂ©. J’ai dĂ©couvert durant mon parcours de restauration que j’Ă©tais devenue une femme querelleuse. J’ai dĂ©couvert Ă©galement la parole qui dit que:” Faute de bois, le feu s’Ă©teint; Et quand il n’y a point de rapporteur, la querelle s’apaise. Le charbon produit un brasier, et le bois du feu; Ainsi un homme querelleur Ă©chauffe une dispute. Proverbes 26:20-22 LSG
Ă la suite de cela, j’ai Ă©galement appris, “gagner sans un mot” https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ et un “la gentillesse sur la langue” https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-9-chapter-4-kindness-is-on-her-tongue/ ; un esprit doux et tranquille: https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-8-chapter-3-a-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/ tous des chapitres qui se trouvent dans le livre de la femme sage. Il est vrai que mon mari avait son caractĂšre mais j’avais Ă©galement ma part de responsabilitĂ© dans ces querelles. C’est d’ailleurs pour cela que lorsque j’ai commencĂ© Ă lire ce livre de la femme sage, j’ai Ă©tĂ© tellement choquĂ© que j’ai abandonnĂ© la premiĂšre fois mais j’y suis revenue quelques temps plus tard et je me suis repentie et j’ai acceptĂ© d’obĂ©ir et de me soumettre Ă la parole de Dieu. En dehors de tous ce que les soeurs ont dit plutĂŽt, je te conseille le cours “dĂ©votion matinale”, il s’y trouve Ă©galement de bons encouragements, et grĂące Ă cela, tu te rends compte, ce que tu as vĂ©cu, quelqu’un d’autre l’a dĂ©ja vĂ©cu. Tiens bon ma soeur, je te partage Ă©galement ce verset:
2 Timothée 4:7-8
J’ai combattu le bon combat, j’ai achevĂ© la course, j’ai gardĂ© la foi.
DĂ©sormais la couronne de justice m’est rĂ©servĂ©e; le Seigneur, le juste juge, me le donnera dans ce jour-lĂ , […]
Ne t’ai-je pas donnĂ© cet ordre: Fortifie-toi et prends courage? Ne t’effraie point et ne t’Ă©pouvante point, car l’Eternel, ton Dieu, est avec toi dans tout ce que tu entreprendras. Josue 1:9
Ne crains rien, car je suis avec toi; Ne promĂšne pas des regards inquiets, car je suis ton Dieu; Je te fortifie, je viens Ă ton secours, Je te soutiens de ma droite triomphante. Esaie 41:10
My beloved sister, I understand what you are going through. I experienced it for years and even after the divorce, it didn’t stop. I discovered during my restoration journey that I had become a quarrelsome woman. I also discovered the saying that says: âFor lack of wood, the fire goes out; And when there is no rapporteur, the quarrel subsides. Coal makes a fire, and wood makes a fire; So a quarrelsome man heats up an argument. Proverbs 26:20-22 KJV
as a result of this, I also learned, âwon without a wordâ https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ and a âkindness on the tongueâ https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-9-chapter-4-kindness-is-on-her-tongue/ ; a gentle and quiet spirit: https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-8-chapter-3-a-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/ all chapters found in the book of the wise woman. It is true that my husband had his character but I also had my share of responsibility in these quarrels. This is also why when I started reading this book by the wise woman, I was so shocked that I gave up the first time but I came back to it some time later and I I repented and agreed to obey and submit to the word of God. Apart from everything that the sisters said, I recommend the âmorning devotionâ course to you, there is also good encouragement there, and thanks to this, you realize what you have experienced, something someone else has already experienced it. Hold on my sister, I also share this verse with you:
2 Timothy 4:7-8
I fought the good fight, I finished the race, I kept the faith.
From now on the crown of righteousness is reserved for me; the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give it to me in that day, [âŠ]
Have I not given you this command: Strengthen yourself and take courage? Do not be afraid or be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you in all that you do. Joshua 1:9
Fear not, for I am with you; Do not look worried, for I am your God; I strengthen you, I come to your aid, I support you with my triumphant right hand. Isaiah 41:10
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