Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
“Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end: "Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Land |
| Suid-Afrika |
| Watter taal praat jy? |
| Afrikaans |
| Ek is hier: |
| Opsoek na herstel vir my huwelik. |
| Wat is jou huidige huwelik status? Maak asseblief seker dat jy die een kies wat jou situasie DIE BESTE beskryf. * |
| Uitmekaar: Ek is getroud, maar my man woon nie by my nie. |
| Het jy die boek "Hoe God Jou Huwelik Kan en Sal Herstel" gelees? |
| Nee. |
| Hoe het jy ons bediening gevind? |
| Een van die lede van War room het my u link aangestuur. |
| Vertel ons nou asseblief van jou situasie en hoekom jy na ons toe gekom het vir hulp en wat het jou man/maat gesê is die hoofkwessies of probleme wat hy met jou en julle verhouding het? |
| Eks getroud vir 7jaar. Ek en my man gaan deur n moeilike tyd in ons huwelik weens my man se owerspel en na ander vrou soek terwyl ons getroud is. Hy het my gevra om te loop en en n altimatum gestel as ek nie loop sal hy die dinge voor my doen. Ons het twee kinders en huidiglik het ons n baba oppad wat binnekort gebore gaan word. |
| Gebruik asseblief die spasie hieronder om eenvoudig met God te praat, in jou eie woorde, en jou hart uit te stort na Hom. |
| Liewe Heer. So nederag soos ek is kom ek na u toe Here. U ken my van binne en buite. U ken my gedagtes Here. Here ek vra dat u herstelling in my huwelik sal bring en my gesin tot volle sal herstel. Here ek is bereid om die verandering te bring wat u wil he ek moet bring in my en ook in my verhouding. U beloof ons dat wat u bymekaar gevoeg het kan niemand skei nie, alleenlik die dood. My God u was bekend met ons situasie toe u besluit het om ons n baba te gee. Ek mag nie nou verstaan nie maar ek weet u het n doel met alles. Here ek wil nie he my baba moet in hierdie toestand gebore word nie. Sal u aan ons vrede en vreegde gee. Sal u weer geluk aan ons toe vertrou. My toekoms is vandag in u hande. Terwyl my man n besluit moet maak oor ons huwelik vra ek u dat u asseblief goddrlik sal ingryp in ons situasie en hom die nodige wysheid sal gee om die regte besluites te neem wat ons as gesin sal bevoordeel en nader aan mekaar te beweeg. Here laat toe dat ons huwelik n getruie van u word my God. Help ons om nie op te gee op ons huwelik nie my God. Dis die huiligste instelling van u. Here help my man om nie dieselfde foute te begaan wat sy ouers gedoen het nie Here. Laat my man toe om na u te soek vir Help en nie die Wereld nie my God. Here u alleen weet wat hy deur gemaak het om sonder sy vader groot te word. Breek daai sig af Here sodat hy sal staan as vader vir sy kinders en n man vir my as vrou. Help hom om sy verandwoordelikhede vol te staan en u hom nommer een sal maak. Laat hy meer en meer besef dat u hom lief het en dat hy niks sonder u is nie in U magtige naam. Die naam wat verlos, die naam wat reg en die naam wat genees in die wonderlike en kragte naam van Christus. Amen |
| Vir ons om meer effektief aan jou te bedien, kyk asseblief watter bekommernisse op jou van toepassing is: |
| Gelukkig het ek geen ander bekommernisse, behalwe my verhouding op hierdie tydstip nie. |
| Ten slotte, kies asseblief hoe jy wil hê ons moet jou Huweliksevaluering doen uit die keuses hieronder. |
| Plaas jou vraelys privaat aan 'n toegewysde IOU Huweliksbediening-student. “Voorbeeld" |
| Country |
| South Africa |
| What language do you speak? |
| African |
| I am here: |
| Seeking recovery for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to select the one that BEST describes your situation. * |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage"? |
| No. |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| One of the members of War room forwarded me your link. |
| Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what did your husband/partner say are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I am married for 7 years. My husband and I are going through a difficult time in our marriage due to my husband's adultery and looking for another woman while we are married. He asked me to walk and set an ultimatum if I didn't leave he would do the things in front of me. We have two children and currently we have a baby on the way who will be born soon. |
| Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, and pour out your heart to Him. |
| Dear Lord As humble as I am I come to you Lord. You know me inside and out. You know my thoughts Lord. Lord I ask that you will bring restoration to my marriage and restore my family to fullness. Lord, I am ready to bring the change you want me to bring in me and also in my relationship. You promise us that what you have joined together no one can separate, only death. My God you were familiar with our situation when you decided to give us a baby. I may not understand now but I know you have a purpose for everything. Lord I don't want my baby to be born in this condition. Will you give us peace and joy. Will entrust your happiness to us again. My future is in your hands today. While my husband has to make a decision about our marriage, I ask you to please divinely intervene in our situation and give him the necessary wisdom to make the right decisions that will benefit us as a family and move closer to each other. Lord, allow our marriage to become a jersey of yours, my God. Help us not to give up on our marriage my God. That's the most crying attitude of yours. Lord help my husband not to make the same mistakes his parents did Lord. Allow my husband to look to you for Help and not the World my God. Lord you alone know what he went through growing up without his father. Break that sight Lord so that he will stand as a father to his children and a man to me as a wife. Help him fulfill his responsibilities and you will make him number one. Let him realize more and more that you love him and that he is nothing without you in your mighty name. The name that saves, the name that right and the name that heals in the wonderful and powerful name of Christ. Amen |
| For us to serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
| Fortunately, I have no other worries except my relationship at this time. |
| Finally, please select how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Assessment from the choices below. |
| Submit your questionnaire privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry student. "Example" |
Liefste bruid, jy is in my gebede.
Ek wil jou aanmoedig om die eerste hoofstuk te begin https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d1-chapter-1-my-beloved/
Ek bid dat ons Vader jou betroosing sal gee in hierdie tyd. Onthou ,dat Hy altyd by jou is.
Ek wil graag die volgende vir jou los, bid, bly op jou kniee,moenie laat gaan van Sy hand nie.
Ek dank God. . . soos ek nag en dag gedurig aan jou dink in my gebede,en verlang om jou te sien,
al dink ek aan jou trane,sodat ek met blydskap vervul kan word.
—2 Timoteus 1:3–4
Liewe lieflike suster in Christus, God kan en sal jou huwelik herstel: jy het Sy Woord daarop. “En Jesus antwoord en sê vir hulle: Voorwaar Ek sê vir julle, as julle geloof het en nie twyfel nie, sal julle nie net doen wat gedoen is nie . . . maar al sê jy vir hierdie berg: Hef jou op en werp in die see, dit sal gebeur’” (Matt. 21:21).
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Dearest bride, you are in my prayers.
I want to encourage you to start the first chapter https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d1-chapter-1-my-beloved/
I pray that our Father will give you comfort at this time. Remember that He is always with you.
I would like to leave the following for you, pray, stay on your knees, don’t let go of His hand.
I thank God. . . as I think of you night and day in my prayers, and long to see you,
though I think of your tears, so that I may be filled with joy.
—2 Timothy 1:3–4
Dear lovely sister in Christ, God can and will restore your marriage: you have His Word on it. “And Jesus answered and said to them: Truly I say to you, if you have faith and do not doubt, you will not only do what has been done . . . but even if you say to this mountain: Be lifted up and cast into the sea, it will be done'” (Matt. 21:21).
Kosbare liefste vrou van Suid-Afrika, ek is so jammer oor al die seer waardeur jy nou gaan, maar ek wil jou bemoedig dat daar hoop is by die ons kosbare Here en dat al lyk alles nou vir jou dalk onmoontlik, is die nie vir die Here onmoontlik om jou hele situasie te verander nie.
“Want geen ding sal by God onmoontlik wees nie.” L1:37 https://www.bible.com/af/bible/compare/LUK.1.37
Ek wil jou aanmoedig om asseblief met Kursus 1 (Hoe God jou huwelik kan en sal herstel) te begin – https://uiteindelikhoop.com/kursus/k1/
Vat ons kosbare Here se hand en sit al jou fokus op Hom, Hy sal die Een wees wat jou man se hart draai – “DIE koning se hart is in die hand van die HERE soos waterstrome: Hy lei dit waarheen Hy wil.” S21:1 https://www.bible.com/af/bible/compare/PRO.21.1
Ek wil jou ook aanmoedig om asseblief op ons Afrikaanse blog UiteindelikHoop.com ( https://uiteindelikhoop.com/blog/ ) te kom loer, ons plaas daagliks getuienisse, wat ons geleer het uit lesse.
Kosbare liefste vrou ek sien uit om te sien wat die Here in jou lewe gaan doen.
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Precious dearest bride of South Africa, I am so sorry for all the pain you are going through right now, but I want to encourage you that there is hope with our precious Lord and that even though everything may seem impossible to you now, it is not impossible for the Lord to change your whole situation.
“For nothing will be impossible with God.” L1:37 https://biblehub.com/luke/1-37.htm
I want to encourage you to please start with Course 1 (How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage) – https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
Take our precious Lord’s hand and put all your focus on Him, He will be the One who turns your husband’s heart – “The king’s heart is like a stream of water directed by the LORD; he guides it wherever he pleases.” P21:1
I also want to encourage you to please visit our Afrikaans blog UiteindelikHoop.com ( https://uiteindelikhoop.com/blog/ ) We daily place testimonies and what we have learned out of lessons.
Precious dearest bride I look forward to seeing what the Lord will do in your life.
Liefste bruid ek is jammer vir waardeur jy gaan. Die Here is baie lief vir jou. Hy is by jou en hou jou hand vas.Gee al oor aan die Here, gee oor, gee dit vir Hom en laat gaan en laat die Here Liefste bruid. Ek wil jou graag aanmoedig om die boek te lees Hou God jou huwelik kan en sal herstel. te lees en om hou sy hand al die pad vas. Hier is n paar beloftes.
Ek gryp jou regterhand vas. Ek is die Here jou God. En Ek sê vir jou: ‘Moenie bang wees nie. Ek is daar om jou te help!’ J41:13 NLV
https://bible.com/bible/117/isa.41.13.NLV
Ek weet wat Ek vir julle beplan het,” sê die Here. “Ek beplan voorspoed vir julle, nie teëspoed nie. Ek wil hê dat julle hoop vir die toekoms moet hê. J29:11 NLV
https://bible.com/bible/117/jer.29.11.NLV
En Ek sal hulle harte verander en hulle gees nuut maak. Ek sal die harte van klip wegneem en vir hulle sagte harte in die plek daarvan gee. E11:19 NLV
https://bible.com/bible/117/ezk.11.19.NLV
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Dearest bride I am sorry for what you are going through. The Lord loves you very much. He is with you and holding your hand. Surrender to the Lord, surrender, give it to Him and let go and let the Lord Dearest bride. I would like to encourage you to read the book How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage. to read and to hold his hand all the way. Here are some promises.
I grasp your right hand. I am the Lord your God. And I say to you: ‘Do not be afraid. I am there to help you!’ Isaiah 41:13
I know what I have planned for you,” says the Lord. “I plan prosperity for you, not adversity. I want you to have hope for the future. Jeremia 29:11
And I will change their hearts and renew their spirit. I will take away the hearts of stone and give them soft hearts in their place. Ezekiel 11:19