Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2Â Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
âEvery fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.â 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end: "Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Country: |
| Reunion Island |
| What language do you speak? |
| French |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| I asked for help but no one was able to give me any. I got lost and everything got worse and worse. I had lost all hope, on the edge of the abyss. Then, I found you while watching a video of a woman named AĂŻcha. She was talking about the restoration of marriage. I looked at the comments below the video. And I saw a comment from a lady who talked about her marriage being restored thanks to your online courses but especially to your books. That's how I came to your website. |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I am currently separated from my husband. We do not have a civil union but we were married at the time before God. I was once Muslim and my husband was Christian and we got married in front of an imam. The situation started to get complicated when I became pregnant with our son last year. We no longer understood each other. Blaming himself. And there was infidelity and everything got worse. He started to hate me and I only saw his adultery and not me. We finally separated two months ago and he went to live with the AF. He blamed me for not listening to him. That I talked a lot. And I reproached him that he was only focused on his unhappiness and not mine. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Lord, Today I don't know what to do anymore. Everything I tried with my hand failed. I'm completely surrendering to you now. My marriage, my children, my home I give my life to the Lord to resurrect what is dead He said he didn't love me anymore, he said he loved her. Lord, it is you and you alone who can change my husband's heart and bring him back to us. I ask and beseech you, transform me, restore me and change my face so that when my restoration takes place, I will be completely changed forever. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. |
| Country: |
| Ile de le RĂ©union |
| What language do you speak? |
| Français |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| J'ai demandé de l'aide mais personne n'a su m'en donner. Je me suis perdu et tout est devenu pire en pire. J'avais perdu tout espoir, au bord du gouffre. Puis, je vous ai trouvé en regardant une vidéo d'une femme qui s'appelle Aïcha. Elle parlait de la restauration du mariage. Je regardé les commentaires en dessous de la vidéo. Et j'ai vu le commentaire d'une dame qui parlait de son mariage restauré grùce à vos cours en ligne mais surtout à vos livres. C'est comme ça que je suis allée sur votre site web. |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| Je suis actuellement sĂ©parĂ© de mon mari. Nous n'avons pas d'union civile mais nous nous sommes mariĂ©s Ă l'Ă©poque devant Dieu. J'Ă©tais musulmane autrefois et mon mari chrĂ©tien et nous nous sommes mariĂ©s devant un imam. La situation Ă commencer Ă devenir compliquĂ© quand je suis tombĂ© enceinte de notre fils, l'annĂ©e derniĂšre. On ne se comprenait plus. S'accusant. Et il y a eu une infidĂ©litĂ© et tout s'est aggravĂ©. Il a commencĂ© Ă me dĂ©tester et moi je ne voyais que son adultĂšre et pas moi. On s'est finalement sĂ©parĂ© il y a deux mois et il est parti vivre avec l'AF. Il me reprochĂ© que je ne l'Ă©coutais pas. Que je parlais beaucoup. Et moi je le reprochais qu'il Ă©tait axĂ© que sur son mal ĂȘtre et pas le mien. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Seigneur, Aujourd'hui, je ne sais plus quoi faire. Tout ce que j'ai tenté de ma main a échoué. Je me remets complÚtement à toi maintenant. Mon mariage, mes enfants, mon foyer Je donne ma vie à Jesus pour ressusciter ce qui est mort Il a dit qu'il ne m'aimait plus, il a dit que c'était elle qu'il aimait. Seigneur, c'est toi et toi seul qui peut changer le coeur de mon mari et le faire revenir à nous. Je te demande et t'en supplie, transforme moi, restaure moi et changé ma face pour que quand aura lieu ma restauration, je serais complÚtement changé à jamais. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
Shalom shalom ma soeur en Christ.
Je peux comprendre cette souffrance celui qui a partagĂ© notre vie se retouve sous le joug de l’ennemi. D’abord la sister, il faut que vous arrĂȘtez de le regarder ou de le mepriser votre mari dans votre coeur.
Romains 6:16
Louis Segond
16 Ne savez-vous pas qu’en vous livrant Ă quelqu’un comme esclaves pour lui obĂ©ir, vous ĂȘtes esclaves de celui Ă qui vous obĂ©issez, soit du pĂ©chĂ© qui conduit Ă la mort, soit de l’obĂ©issance qui conduit Ă la justice?
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romains%206%3A16&version=LSG
Il est sous un joug et cne contribuez pas avec l’ennemi pou le faire sentir qu’il est coupable.
Je vous recommande le cours comm3 vous avez deja lu le livre maintenant suiez les cours
https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/
Ne lachez pas et remplissez les eloges car vous vous adressez a Dieu.
Le devotional
https://aidemaritale.com/mos-bien-aime/juin/#26%20Juin
De lire aussi La bible
Si vous avez deja lu la bible changer de version de la bible Parole de vie, SCOURBY, une bible simplifiée.
AttachĂ©e vous a Cheist et non a l’homme Dieu veut vous guĂ©rir ( VOTRE MARI ET VOUS AUSSI) mais il faut vous tourner vers lui
14 La femme sage bùtit sa maison, Et la femme insensée la renverse de ses propres mains.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbes%2014-15&version=LSG
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Shalom shalom my sister in Christ.
I can understand this suffering the one who shared our life finds himself under the yoke of the enemy. First sister, you must stop looking at him or despising your husband in your heart.
Romans 6:16
Louis Segond
16 Do you not know that to whom you yield yourselves as slaves to obey him, you are slaves to whom you obey, whether of sin which leads to death, or of obedience which leads to righteousness?
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romains%206%3A16&version=LSG
He is under a yoke and do not contribute with the enemy to make him feel that he is guilty.
I recommend the course comm3 you have already read the book now follow the courses
https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/
Do not give up and fill in the praises because you are addressing God.
The devotional
https://aidemaritale.com/mos-bien-aime/juin/#26%20Juin
Also read The bible
If you have already read the bible change the version of the bible Word of life, SCOURBY, a simplified bible.
Attached to Cheist and not to man God wants to heal you (YOUR HUSBAND AND YOU TOO) but you must turn to him
14 The wise woman builds her house, And the foolish woman overthrows it with her own hands.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2014-15&version=LSG
Dear bride, I sympathize with the pain you are experiencing. I know how it feels when your husband is intimate with another woman, it breaks your heart.
I am so grateful that He brought you to us. I also asked Him for help because no one could help me. He brought me to this ministry. This is the most beautiful thing that has happened to me.
I learned so much by taking the classes and reading a lot of the Bible and reading all the testimonies of the other brides. But the best part is that I found Him as my Heavenly Husband.
Like Kataleen, I would like to encourage you to take course 1 and complete your diaries. So that you can pour out your heart to Him.
It is important that you learn to let go and let go of your earth man. In this lesson you will learn why that is so important.
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/
Finally, you want to encourage with the text below, because what you are experiencing now in your life is not random. He has a special plan for your life and calls you to follow His way. He wants to restore your life and marriage!
Isaiah 54 : 5 -7 For thy Maker is thy husband; Jehovah of hosts is his name: and the Holy One of Israel is thy Redeemer; the God of the whole earth shall he be called. For Jehovah hath called thee as a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit, even a wife of youth, when she is cast off, saith thy God. For a small moment have I forsaken thee; but with great mercies will I gather thee.
https://www.bible.com/bible/21/ISA.54.BDS
Shalom Ă vous,
Depuis mon Ă©crit, j’ai expĂ©rimentĂ© le lĂącher prise et je me concentre uniquement sur mon mari CĂ©leste. Ce n’est pas facile de lĂącher prise mais c’est mieux ainsi et maintenant je me dit que ça sera la volontĂ© de Dieu de restaurer mon mariage car je n’ai pas envie de perdre cette connexion avec mon mari CĂ©leste si mon mari Terrestre revient.
Je vous remercie pour tout vos conseils.
Shalom to you,
Since my writing, I have experimented with letting go and I focus only on my husband CĂ©leste. It’s not easy to let go but it’s better this way and now I tell myself that it will be God’s will to restore my marriage because I don’t want to lose this connection with my Celestial husband if my Earthly husband comes back.
Thank you for all your advice.
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”