Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
“Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end: "Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Country |
| South Africa |
| What language do you speak? |
| Afrikaans |
| I am here: |
| Seeking recovery for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to select the one that BEST describes your situation. * |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage"? |
| No. |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what did your husband/partner say are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My husband just walked out after 11 years and almost 2 years of being married. We have a little girl, she is 8 years old. He says every day when he sees me he can come home because he belongs here but what about his feelings for the other woman |
| Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, and pour out your heart to Him. |
| Lord our Daddy Father I ask You please to restore my marriage. We are legally married before God and have made a promise until death do us part. I know what he is doing is a sin in Your eyes, but please Lord intervene in the woman's heart as well so that she will realize that she cannot build her happiness on someone else's sorrow. To bring my husband back to his family. I will be a better person for him. I will improve so much at every level. Please Heavenly Father I need him so much he is everything to my daughter and me. I love him so infinitely. I also ask that you remove the 3rd party because as long as she is in the picture, my husband is in the dark. He says every day he can come home because that's where he belongs with us and that he still loves me but what should he do with his feelings for her. God works in his heart and clears his mind so that he will only think of his wife and child. And with a clear mind and his love for me will notice again. Daddy Father Your God is the only one who can step in now and restore my marriage. Thank you Lord for Your Goodness and Favor and that it is already happening. In Jesus name. Amen |
| For us to serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Abused or molested as a child. |
| Finally, please select how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Assessment from the choices below. |
| Submit your questionnaire privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry student. "Example" |
| Land |
| Suid Afrika |
| Watter taal praat jy? |
| Afrikaans |
| Ek is hier: |
| Opsoek na herstel vir my huwelik. |
| Wat is jou huidige huwelik status? Maak asseblief seker dat jy die een kies wat jou situasie DIE BESTE beskryf. * |
| Uitmekaar: Ek is getroud, maar my man woon nie by my nie. |
| Het jy die boek "Hoe God Jou Huwelik Kan en Sal Herstel" gelees? |
| Nee. |
| Hoe het jy ons bediening gevind? |
| Vertel ons nou asseblief van jou situasie en hoekom jy na ons toe gekom het vir hulp en wat het jou man/maat gesê is die hoofkwessies of probleme wat hy met jou en julle verhouding het? |
| My man het na 11 jaar en amper 2 jaar van getroud wees net uitgestap. Ons het n dogtertjie sy is 8 jaar oud. Hy se elke dag as hy my sien hy kan huistoe kom want hy hoort hier maar wat van sy gevoelens vir die ander vrou |
| Gebruik asseblief die spasie hieronder om eenvoudig met God te praat, in jou eie woorde, en jou hart uit te stort na Hom. |
| Here ons Pappa Vader ek vra U asb om my huwelik te herstel. Ons is wettiglik voor God getroud en het n belofte gemaak tot die dood ons skei. Ek weet wat hy doen is sonde in U oe maar asb Here tree in die vrou se hart ook dat sy sal besef sy kan ni haar geluk op iemand amders se hartseer bou ni. Om my man terug te bring na sy familie toe. Ek sal n beter mens vir hom wees. Ek sal soveel verbeter op elke vlak. Asb Hemelse Vader ek het hom so nodig hy is my en my dogtertjie se als. Ek het hom so oneindig lief. Ek vra ook dat U die 3 de party verwyder want vir solank as wat sy in die prentjie is , is my man deurmrkaar. Hy se elke dag hy kan huistoe kom want dis waar hy hoort by ons en dat hy my nog lief het maar wat moet hy met sy gevoelens vir haar doen. Here werk in sy hart en maak sy gedagtes skoon dat hy net aan sy vrou en kind sal dink. En met n clear mind en sy liefde vir my weer sal raaksien. Pappa Vader U God is die enigste een wat nou kan intree en my huwelik kan herstel. Dankie Here vir U Goedheid en Guns en dat dit klaar besig is om ye gebeur. In Jesus naam. Amen |
| Vir ons om meer effektief aan jou te bedien, kyk asseblief watter bekommernisse op jou van toepassing is: |
| Depressief. As kind mishandel of gemolesteer. |
| Ten slotte, kies asseblief hoe jy wil hê ons moet jou Huweliksevaluering doen uit die keuses hieronder. |
| Plaas jou vraelys privaat aan 'n toegewysde IOU Huweliksbediening-student. “Voorbeeld" |
Kosbare bruid, ek is so jammer waardeur jy gaan, ek wil jou bemoedig met ‘n feit dat niks by God ontmoontlik is nie L1:37 https://www.bible.com/af/bible/6/LUK.1.37.AFR83 en alhoewel jou man dit sê oor sy gevoelens vir die ander vrou, kan ons wonderlike Here alles in ‘n oogwink verander, want “Die koning se hart is in die hand van die HERE soos waterstrome: Hy lei dit waarheen Hy wil..” S21:1 https://www.bible.com/af/bible/compare/PRO.21.1
Ek wil jou aanmoedig om al jou fokus op ons wonderlike Here te sit sodat Hy jou Eerste Liefde word – https://uiteindelikhoop.com/ewige-liefde/
Asseblief begin met Kursus 1 – https://uiteindelikhoop.com/kursus/k1/ – Herstel jou Huwelik, dit sal jou lewe verander, net soos dit so baie van ons lewens verander het.
Liefste bruid, eerstens wil ek baie jammer se vir jou seer, ek weet hoe jy voel, en dit is vir my elke keer so bitter seer om te sien hoe baie vrouens in dieselfde situasie sit, dus, wil ek se, onthou jy is nie alleen nie. Die vyand is lastig, maar hy sal nooit wen nie, want ons dien n Almagtige Vader. Ek wil jou aanmoedig om vir jouself die boek How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage te kry. Dit het my so baie gehelp die laaste ruk om meer te verstaan waardeur ek gaan, wat my pad met God is en waar Hy my wil he voordat Hy my huwelik restoreer. En dan ook soos Janine gesê het, begin met die kursus, vat dit dag vir dag.
Moenie moed op gee nie, moet nooit ophou bid vir jou man nie, praat met die Here daagliks oor wat op jou hart is, Hy luister altyd.
Liefste bruid ek is jammer oor die seer wat jy nou deur gaan ek weet hou jy voel en en weet hou jy as n ma voel. Jy is nie alleen nie die die Here is by jou en hy sal jou trane af vee . Lees asb Hou God jou huwelik kan en sal herstel boek en doen die kersus wat Janine voorstel en hou styf vas aan die Here hy hou jou regterhand vas
JES 41:13 NLV
[13] Ek gryp jou regterhand vas. Ek is die Here jou God. En Ek sê vir jou: ‘Moenie bang wees nie. Ek is daar om jou te help!’
PS 55:23 NLV
[23] Gee jou kommer oor aan die Here. Hy sal vir jou sorg. Hy sal gelowiges nie teleurstel nie.
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”