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| Country: |
| Zambia |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking healing for myself—I am NOT interested in restoring any relationship. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Through a link sent by my friend |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| The only help am seeking is to deeply fall in love with my Heavenly husband, for my marriage I have left it in God's hands. He has said alot of things that he says that he didn't want any to do with me. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Father my faith is weak, I don't know what step to take or which way to go too, my situation is hopeless and dead just like Lazarus's case. If only you can show me the way. Lord I fail you time and time I don't seem to change please you are my only creator. Lord do it your way |
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| Depressed. |
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Dear bride, I see that you want to fall deeply in love with your HH and are seeking healing for yourself.
I would like to encourage you to go to the He Healed Me course (https://loveatlast.org/hhm/). This course helped me to get the healing I needed in my life.
The Abundant life Series of books/courses helped me to find the Lord as my HH and helped me to fall in love with Him (https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/).
Spending time in His word, spending time alone with Him and seeking Him throughout your day, is what also helped me to grow in intimacy with Him. Taking everything to Him and Him only. It is also important to just be quiet in His presence, to listen to Him and to listen to that small, still voice talking to you.
A verse that really helped me a lot by meditating on it was and is:
“Fear not, for you will not be put to shame;
And do not feel humiliated, for you will not be disgraced;
But you will forget the shame of your youth,
And the reproach [disappointment] of your widowhood you will remember no more.
“For your Husband is your Maker, Whose name is the Lord of hosts;
And your Redeemer Who is called the God of all the earth.
“’For the Lord has called YOU,
Like a wife forsaken and grieved in spirit,
Even like a wife of one’s youth when she is rejected,’
Says your God.” (Isaiah 54)
Dear Bride,
I am so happy to read that you are seeking healing and a deeper intimate relationship with your HH. You have come to the right community to learn how to have a happy and joyful life with your Lord and Maker. He is the first love of your life. He longs for you, you are his bride. With His Word that He has sent you you will receive the healing that will heal all your wounds. Not superficially but completely. I can assure you that. Like you, I came to Hopeatlast broken and deeply longing for my Lord for in the beginning restoration of my marriage. However, my desires changed. I found something better. I am glad that you want that too. Now that I have my first love back, my heart is overflowing with joy and happiness, so much so that I walk with a smile on my face all day long. He also wants to be the Man for you that you long for.
I would encourage you to start reading the Abundant Life books. https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
Especially chapter 6 “They Don’t Have It”.
https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/chapter-6-they-dont-have-it/
But also this chapter of the website hopeatlast.com https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/ .
These pages AND reading His Word will begin to heal the first wounds, pain and sorrow.
promises that helped me embrace my First Love:
[3] The Lord appeared to us in the past, saying: “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.
https://jeremiah.bible/jeremiah-31-3
[17] The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.”
https://zephaniah.bible/zephaniah-3-17
[9] For the eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him. You have done a foolish thing, and from now on you will be at war.”
https://2chronicles.bible/2-chronicles-16-9
I look forward to the beautifull, wonderful testimonies you will send to encourage other women.
Much Love 🌹
Dear Sonia
Like Kristine and Adina, I am glad you want your Heavenly Husband First. And it is all that He expects of us there is no real, life or marriage without Him, it is His desire that we put Him first, and then he will take care of the rest.
I was glad that right at the beginning of my journey all that I ever wanted was more of Him, and then the crisis hit my marriage, just after I decided to give my heart to Him. There is no life apart from Him, He is all that matters, and all rest is secondary. It is a blessing to walk with like-minded brides who share the same passion as Kristine and Adina shared, I have also experienced healing that for me is more like a miracle because I used to wonder if I ever would get healed even though He is not done yet, today I am happy, not just happy but joyful like having a dance party in my heart, I am starting my business-ministry, teaching Zumba and the word of God God healed me practically and naturally as I feasted in the word of God, applied is principles to my life- including dietary and lifestyles, journal the lessons, especially the
The Abundant Life series: https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
https://loveatlast.org/fc/living-the-abundant-life/
He Healed: https://loveatlast.org/hhm/
and attended Zoom fellowship The Abundant Life serihttps://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
https://loveatlast.org/fc/living-the-abundant-life/
He Healed: https://loveatlast.org/hhm/
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