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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
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| Pays |
| france |
| Quelle langue parlez-vous |
| Francais |
| Je suis là: |
| Je cherche à restaurer ma relation actuelle. |
| Quelle est ta situation conjugale actuelle? |
| Jamais légalement mariée et je veux de l´aide. |
| Avez-vous lu le livre "Comment Dieu peut et va restaurer votre mariage?" |
| Oui |
| Comment avez-vous trouvé notre ministère ? |
| Sur internet, en cherchant un support chrétien |
| Maintenant, veuillez nous parler de votre situation et pourquoi vous êtes venu nous demander de l'aide et qu'est-ce que votre mari/partenaire a dit comme étant les principaux problèmes ou problèmes qu'il a avec vous et votre relation ? |
| Mon partenaire et moi, nous nous sommes séparés il y a un an et nous sommes restes vivre ensemble. Il va quitter notre appartement dans 2 semaines mais il ne m'a pas encore confirme sa date de départ. Depuis qu'il a quitte son travail, il vient a l'appartement un jour sur deux et depuis une semaine, il dort tous les soirs chez l'autre femme. Les principaux problèmes ont été ma jalousie, je soupçonnais le mal constamment. Je me suis souvent murer dans le silence quand il me posait des questions sur ma mauvaise gestion des finances. C'est la un grand problème entre nous. Je me refermais, et je n'arrangeais pas non plus le problème. Et puis, je suis une personne fière, alors je ne manquais pas de faire savoir mes connaissances de la Bible, et que j'étais la femme parfaite... Et, j'avais une attitude hautaine devant des personnes qui avaient des qualifications professionnelles moins que moi. Je me rebellais souvent avec des arguments et si je pouvais le rabaisser, je le faisais. Je voulais avoir raison... Nous nous connaissons depuis 7 ans, nous étions meilleurs amis pendant 3 ans avant de débuter notre relation. J'ai pris mon temps avant d'accepter de commencer notre histoire et j'ai voulu la confirmation de Dieu. Je faisais un jeune et prière, 2 semaines avant que je laisse mon coeur s'ouvrir a lui. Il n'était pas du tout dans ma tête et a la fin de mon jeune, j'ai rêvé de lui. Il venait de rentrer de ses congés et il m'a appelé le matin de mon rêve. Je n'ai pas prêté attention sur le moment, mais quelques jours après, je suis tombée malade et il est venu s'occuper de moi. Et la, cela a raisonne dans mon coeur. Je ne voulais pas précipiter les choses car je ne voulais pas tomber dans une nouvelle déception amoureuse. J'ai prie et demande a Dieu. Puis mon partenaire m'a dit qu'il voyait quelqu'un. Du coup, j'ai prie mais je ne me souviens plus quoi exactement mais j'ai accepte la situation. Et, juste quelques jours plus tard, il m'a annonce que la personne avec qui il était, avait decide de rompre. J'ai encore attendu 2 mois avant de vraiment lui dire que je voulais être avec lui. Je crois que Dieu est l'auteur de notre relation et qu'il a créé les circonstances de notre rencontre et notre installation. Et malheureusement, je sais que lorsque nous avons débuté notre relation, j'ai laisse de cote petit a petit les principes biblique, et je n'ai pas laisse Dieu faire les choses. J'ai laisse une porte ouverte au diable. Dieu me l'a rappelé plusieurs fois de revenir a lui pour aplanir mes sentiers mais je me suis laissée envahir par les choses de ce monde (mon travail). Je suis venue vous demander de l'aide car je crois que Dieu veut restaurer et bénir notre relation. Je veux aussi que cela soit fait pour la Gloire de Dieu. Je sais que j'ai le choix encore comme nous ne sommes pas maries mais je crois que Dieu aimerait me préparer a devenir une femme selon le coeur de Dieu et que je puisse être son aide semblable quand je serai prête. |
| Veuillez utiliser l'espace ci-dessous pour simplement parler à Dieu, dans vos propres mots, en lui ouvrant votre cœur. |
| Seigneur, je reconnais mes erreurs qui ont conduit a la destruction de ma maison et je suis honteuse d'avoir agi comme je l'ai fait... Je l'ai mis aussi sur le trône et en priorité, Je t'ai été infidèle . Je te demande pardon pour toutes mes erreurs. Tu as tourne son coeur, je cherchais la destruction ...Tu m'as pourtant alerte a plusieurs reprises et j'ai été tetue. Aujourd'hui, je souffre de sa nouvelle relation, je suis dévorée de l'intérieur mais je sais que tu es celui que j'aime en premier et je decide de te remettre a TA POSITION. Tu es celui qui me restaures et consoles. Tu m'apprends a t'aimer chaque jour et te faire confiance. Tu m'apprends a devenir ton épouse et me concentrer sur toi. |
| Afin que nous puissions vous servir plus efficacement, veuillez vérifier quelles préoccupations s'appliquent à vous : |
| Heureusement, je n'ai pas d'autres préoccupations que ma relation en ce moment. |
| Enfin, veuillez choisir comment vous souhaitez que nous procédions à votre évaluation de mariage parmi les choix ci-dessous. |
| En publiant votre questionnaire En privé à un étudiant désigné du ministère du mariage IOU. Échantillon |
| Country |
| France |
| What language do you speak |
| French |
| I am here: |
| I am looking to restore my current relationship. |
| What is your current marital situation? |
| Never legally married and I want help. |
| Have you read the book “How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?” |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| On the internet, looking for Christian support |
| Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My partner and I separated a year ago and stayed together. He will be leaving our apartment in 2 weeks but he has not yet confirmed his departure date. Since he left his job, he has come to the apartment every other day and for the past week, he has been sleeping at the other woman's house every night. The main problems were my jealousy, I constantly suspected evil. I often remained silent when he asked me questions about my poor financial management. This is a big problem between us. I closed myself off, and I didn't solve the problem either. And then, I am a proud person, so I did not fail to advertise my knowledge of the Bible, and that I was the perfect woman... And, I had a haughty attitude in front of people who had professional qualifications less than me. I often rebelled with arguments and if I could put him down, I did. I wanted to be right... We have known each other for 7 years, we were best friends for 3 years before starting our relationship. I took my time before agreeing to begin our story and wanted confirmation from God. I fasted and prayed, 2 weeks before I let my heart open to him. He wasn't on my mind at all and at the end of my youth, I dreamed of him. He had just returned from his vacation and he called me the morning of my dream. I didn't pay attention at the time, but a few days later I got sick and he came to take care of me. And there, it resonated in my heart. I didn't want to rush things because I didn't want to fall into another romantic disappointment. I prayed and asked God. Then my partner told me he was seeing someone. So, I prayed but I don't remember what exactly but I accepted the situation. And, just a few days later, he told me that the person he was with had decided to break up. I waited another 2 months before really telling him that I wanted to be with him. I believe that God is the author of our relationship and that he created the circumstances of our meeting and our settling down. And unfortunately, I know that when we first started our relationship, I gradually let go of biblical principles, and I didn't let God do things. I left a door open for the devil. God reminded me several times to come back to him to straighten my paths but I let myself be overwhelmed by the things of this world (my work). I came to you for help because I believe God wants to restore and bless our relationship. I also want this to be done for the Glory of God. I know I have a choice yet as we are not married but I believe God would like to prepare me to become a woman after God's heart and that I can be His fellow helper when I am ready. |
| Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, opening your heart to Him. |
| Lord, I recognize my mistakes which led to the destruction of my house and I am ashamed of having acted as I did... I also put him on the throne and as a priority, I have been to you unfaithful. I ask your forgiveness for all my mistakes. You turned his heart, I was looking for destruction...You alerted me several times and I was stubborn. Today, I am suffering from his new relationship, I am devoured from the inside but I know that you are the one I love first and I decide to put you back in YOUR POSITION. You are the one who restores and consoles me. You teach me to love you every day and trust you. You teach me to become your wife and focus on you. |
| So that we can serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
| Fortunately, I don't have any concerns other than my relationship at the moment. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your marriage assessment from the choices below. |
| By posting your questionnaire Privately to a designated IOU Marriage Ministry student. Sample |
Ma sister en Chrisr.
Bienvenue… Parmi nous. Le Seigneur est bon et il sait pourquoi vous etes ici.
◄ Psaume 23:2 ►
Versets Parallèles
Louis Segond Bible
Il me fait reposer dans de verts pâturages, Il me dirige près des eaux paisibles
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psaumes%2023&version=LSG;SG21;BDS
Vous reconnaissez votre faute maintenant c’est un nouveau voyage qui va commencer avec le Seigneur il sait que vous voulez la restauration de votre couple mais vous lui devez en tout. Apprendre a connaître l’Epoux… Et il veut vous y conduire.
Je vous le devotional tous les jours n’en manquez pas une.
💌https://aidemaritale.com/mos-bien-aime/
Les psaumes et le proverbes
💌https://aidemaritale.com/les-psaumes-et-les-proverbes/
Ci dessous les cours qui vous permettera de continuer le voyage vers la restauration
https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/
Lisez les témoignages des couples restaures dans la librairies vous trouverez des témoignages cliquez l’image.
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https://encouragingwomen.org/kelly-todd-my-restoration-journey-novel-too-little-too-late/
Et voici l’histoire de kelly todd don marriage a été restauré c’est un livre tirait des faits réelles. Une chose que vous devez comprendre votre parcours vers l’epoux sera différent de chacune de ses femmes… Il faut vous laissez par DIEU et non par votre intelligence ni votre propre sagesse.
⚠️La bible doit etre votre moteur de recherche… Jetez tous ce qui est de la psychologie, coaching de couple. C’est le SAINT-ESPRIT votre conseiller.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Jacques%203%3A15-17&version=LSG
💌14 Mais si vous avez dans votre coeur un zèle amer et un esprit de dispute, ne vous glorifiez pas et ne mentez pas contre la vérité.
15 Cette sagesse n’est point celle qui vient d’en haut; mais elle est terrestre, charnelle, diabolique.
16 Car là où il y a un zèle amer et un esprit de dispute, il y a du désordre et toutes sortes de mauvaises actions.
17 La sagesse d’en haut est premièrement pure, ensuite pacifique, modérée, conciliante, pleine de miséricorde et de bons fruits, exempte de duplicité, d’hypocrisie.
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My sister in Christ.
Welcome… Among us. The Lord is good and he knows why you are here.
◄ Psalm 23:2 ►
Parallel Verses
Louis Segond Bible
He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psaumes%2023&version=LSG;SG21;BDS
You recognize your fault now it is a new journey that will begin with the Lord he knows that you want the restoration of your couple but you owe him everything. Learn to know the Bridegroom… And he wants to lead you there.
I give you the devotional every day do not miss one.
💌https://aidemaritale.com/mos-bien-aime/
The psalms and proverbs
💌https://aidemaritale.com/les-psaumes-et-les-proverbes/
Below are the courses that will allow you to continue the journey towards restoration
https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/
Read the testimonies of restored couples in the bookstores you will find testimonies click the image.
https://encouragingwomen.org/kelly-todd-my-restoration-journey-novel-too-little-too-late/
And here is the story of kelly todd whose marriage was restored it is a book drawn from real facts. One thing you must understand your journey towards the husband will be different from each of his wives… You must let yourself be guided by GOD and not by your intelligence or your own wisdom.
⚠️The Bible must be your search engine… Throw away all that is psychology, couple coaching. It is the HOLY SPIRIT your advisor.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Jacques%203%3A15-17&version=LSG
💌14 But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, do not boast and do not lie against the truth.
15 This wisdom is not that which comes from above, but is earthly, carnal, devilish.
16 For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is disorder and every kind of evil work.
17 The wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, easy to be conciliated, full of mercy and good fruits, without double talk, without hypocrisy.
Dearest bride.
I’d like to start by saying how sorry I am for your pain. Please always remember that you are not alone.
I noticed that you have read the book: How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage. Please reread that book over and over again. Pour out your heart to Him. Let your focus be on Him.
I’d like to encourage you to start with the first course in A Wise Woman:
https://hopeatlast.com/c3/d1-chapter-1-on-the-rock/
Pray Psalm 51 aloud: “Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. Against Thee, Thee only, have I sinned, and done what is evil in Thy sight. Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not take Thy Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Thy salvation, and sustain me with a willing spirit. Then I will teach transgressors Thy ways, and sinners will be converted to Thee. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, Thou will not despise.”
Dear Bride, I am so sorry for the heartbreak that you are experiencing, it is devastating I know, I have been there in my own situation.
I noticed that you where “Never Legally Married”. I would like to encourage you to prayerfully read the following lesson: “https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d8-never-legally-married/”
I would also highly recommend the following course: “Wise Woman in Waiting” (https://homegrownministries.com/www/).
It is not impossible for God to restore your relationship, but leave it in His hands to do what only He can do. Nothing we do can change hearts, it only leads to more destruction. Please use this time to focus on your relationship with the Lord, your First Love: (https://homegrownministries.com/www/c2-your-first-love/)
“Therefore everyone who hears these Words of Mine, and acts upon them,
may be compared to a wise man, who built his house upon the rock.
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew,
and burst against that house; and yet it did not fall,
for it had been founded upon the rock.” Matthew 7:24-25
“But I have this against you,
that you have left your first love.” Revelations 2:4
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”