Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
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Country: |
United States |
What language do you speak? |
English. Spanish |
I'm here: |
Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
Yes |
How did you find our ministry? |
Website |
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
This 2023 my husband and I fought a lot. My problem is his adult children. I’m not included when he makes plans or meets. We are 2 separate worlds. |
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
God almighty please help me restore my marriage and soften my husband heart. Please help us see both our faults in this relationship. I love my husband deeply and want him back. I don’t want to fail in my marriage |
In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
Hello my dear, I know the situation you are facing feels very frustrating, but with the Lord, there is always hope for new beginnings!
The Lord gave this promise to you:
“Though you have made me see troubles, many and bitter, you will restore my life again; from the depths of the earth you will again bring me up.
You will increase my honor and comfort me once more.” Psalms 71:20-21
There is hope in the Lord, in my personal journey this course changed my life forever Restore Your Relationships: https://loveatlast.org/ryr/
Because you are dealing with your husband´s children this chapter will renew your mind: “He Turns the Heart”: https://loveatlast.org/ryr/c5/.
This one as well Chapter 5 “Won Without a Word”: https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/, because our biggest battles are fought on our knees and letting go of the situation so the Lord can change hearts!
Take heart you are in your restoration journey and this will be the best journey of your life, because you will know the Lord as your everything and you will become a direct witness of how He changes our lives forever!
Dear Bride, it must be heartbreaking to feel like you are excluded and living in two separate worlds. But like Isabella shared, there is hope. There is hope in the Lord who wants to draw you closer to Him during this time. He will never make you feel excluded or rejected because He loves you with and everlasting love.
“The Lord appeared to us in the past, saying: “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” Jeremiah 31:3.
Since you’ve already read the Restore your marriage book, I would like to encourage you to let the situation go into the Lord’s hands and focus on building a relationship with the Lord as your First Love. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-2-chapter-2-first-love/.
I would also like to encourage you to do the Finding the Abundant Life course to help you to build your relationship with the Lord and to find Him as your First Love: https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/. He will work in your situation and nothing is impossible with Him.
Lastly I just want to share a verse with you that carried me through many trails:
“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Exodus 14:14
Dear Bride,
I know that you are experiencing such heartbreak right now. But be encouraged because this has all happened for a good reason. God can truly do the impossible like restoring your marriage that seems helpless. I noticed you have read the recommended book to restore your marriage. I would recommend going through the courses on hopeatlast and journaling your heart out. It will help heal your broken heart. Use this time to get closer to your HH and allow Him to mold you into a godly woman. The Lord will bring your EH when the time is right. For now focus on making your HH first and everything else will fall into place.
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”
Matthew 6:33 NLT
“A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”
Proverbs 14:1 NLT
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