Name |
Stéphanie |
Country |
France |
What language do you speak |
French |
I am here: |
I am seeking to restore my marriage. |
What is your current marital situation? |
Married, and my husband lives with me. |
Have you read the book âHow God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?â |
No |
How did you find our ministry? |
By a sister |
Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
He is depressed and irritable suffering from screen addiction and spends a lot of time gaming online so he needs to talk with others as he has suffered from rejection of psychological abuse contempt and witnessing violence from a member of his family. So since he plays online with other people who are bad companies in whom he puts his trust and he moves away he admitted to having suicidal thoughts and to maintaining a friendship with a woman I don't know if he still maintains this friendship. Since the holidays, we have been a little better but at the level of communication we have problems he wants so much to be listened to and understood so when he speaks and I do not understand what he said to me he gets angry and tells me I won't talk to you anymore. It frustrates me and creates distance. My long period of unemployment caused us difficulty with emotional professional financial stability. We also have a problem of emotional dependence, I am aware of it but he is not. I need to heal |
Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, opening your heart to Him. |
Father I am lost I need you to free me from bad habits and attitudes and thought healed my heart, grant me to attach myself to you to love you and trust you. To do your perfect will make me a wife a mother a woman after your heart free me from depression nonchalance negligence laziness letting go. Give me back my life and heal deliver my husband from everything that chains him bring him back to you like the prodigal son and may he and I do your perfect will that of serving you to love you transform us in the Name of Jesus restore us and restore our marriage |
So that we can serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
Depressed. Abused or assaulted as a child. |
Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your marriage assessment from the choices below. |
By posting your questionnaire Privately to a designated IOU Marriage Ministry student. Sample |
Nom |
Stéphanie |
Pays |
France |
Quelle langue parlez-vous |
Français |
Je suis lĂ : |
Je cherche Ă restaurer mon mariage. |
Quelle est ta situation conjugale actuelle? |
Mariée, et mon mari vit avec moi. |
Avez-vous lu le livre "Comment Dieu peut et va restaurer votre mariage?" |
Non |
Comment avez-vous trouvé notre ministÚre ? |
Par une sĆur |
Maintenant, veuillez nous parler de votre situation et pourquoi vous ĂȘtes venu nous demander de l'aide et qu'est-ce que votre mari/partenaire a dit comme Ă©tant les principaux problĂšmes ou problĂšmes qu'il a avec vous et votre relation ? |
Il est dĂ©pressif et irritable en souffrance addiction aux Ă©crans et passe beaucoup de temps Ă jouer en ligne de ce fait il a besoin de parler avec d'autres car il a souffert du rejet de l'abus psychologique mĂ©pris et tĂ©moin de la violence d'un membre de sa famille. Donc depuis il joue en ligne avec d'autres personnes qui est des mauvaises compagnies en qui il met sa confiance et il s'Ă©loigne il a avouĂ© d'avoir des pensĂ©es suicidaires et d'entretenir une amitiĂ© avec une femme je ne sais pas si il entretient encore cet amitiĂ©. Depuis les vacances, nous avons un peu Ă©tĂ© mieux mais au niveau de communication nous avons des problĂšme il dĂ©sire tellement d'ĂȘtre Ă©couter et compris donc quand il parle et que je n'ai saisi ce qu'il m'a dit il s'Ă©nerve et me dit je te parle plus. Ăa me frustre et crĂ©er la distance. Ma longue pĂ©riode de chĂŽmage nos difficultĂ© de stabilitĂ© Ă©motionnel professionnel financiĂšre. Nous avons aussi un problĂšme de dĂ©pendance affective, moi j'en suis conscient mais lui non. J'ai besoin de guĂ©rir |
Veuillez utiliser l'espace ci-dessous pour simplement parler Ă Dieu, dans vos propres mots, en lui ouvrant votre cĆur. |
PĂšre je suis perdue j'ai besoin de toi dĂ©livrĂ© de moi mĂȘme des mauvaises habitudes et attitudes et pensĂ© guĂ©ri mon cĆur, accordĂ© moi de m'attacher Ă toi Ă t'aimer et Ă te faire confiance. Ă faire ta volontĂ© parfaite fais de moi une Ă©pouse une mĂšre une femme selon ton cĆur dĂ©livrĂ© moi de dĂ©pression nonchalance nĂ©gligence paresse laisser aller. Redonne moi la vie et guĂ©ri dĂ©livre mon mari de tout ce qui l'enchaine ramĂšne le Ă toi comme le fils prodigue et que lui et moi faisons ta volontĂ© parfaite celle de te servir de t'aimer transforme nous au Nom de JĂ©sus restaure nous et restaure notre mariage |
Afin que nous puissions vous servir plus efficacement, veuillez vérifier quelles préoccupations s'appliquent à vous : |
Déprimée. Abusé ou agressé dans son enfance. |
Enfin, veuillez choisir comment vous souhaitez que nous procédions à votre évaluation de mariage parmi les choix ci-dessous. |
En publiant votre questionnaire En privĂ© Ă un Ă©tudiant dĂ©signĂ© du ministĂšre du mariage IOU. Ăchantillon |
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
Before commenting, remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2Â Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
âEvery fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.â 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end:
"Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
ChĂšre sĆur en Christ , je me rĂ©jouie que le seigneur tâai conduite ici . Tu est au bon endroit . Sache Cette situation bien quâelle ne sois pas facile est entre ses mains . Il a permis cette situation pour que vous vous rapprochez de lui , il veut vous guĂ©rir , vous restaurer entiĂšrement et vous rapprochez de lui . Je vous encourage Ă lire le livre Comment Dieu peut ĂȘtre restaurera votre mariage . Se livre est rempli de vĂ©ritĂ© et de sa parole . Lorsque vous aurez lu se livre je encourage fortement Ă suivre les cours gratuits disponible sur aide.maritale .com . Il y a Ă©galement les livres By the word of their testimonies disponible, se sont les tĂ©moignages de ceux qui sont passer par des situations semblables Ă la vĂŽtre et qui ont vĂ©cu des mariages restaurĂ©s . Se quâils a fais pour les autres il veut le faire pour vous Ă©galement . En attendant prenez le comme epoux prenez sa main et laisser vous guider et consoler , il est tout prĂȘt il nâattend que sa . Il vous aime tellement .
Soyez abondamment bénie .
JĂ©rĂ©mie 33:3 De loin l’Eternel se montre Ă moi: Je t’aime d’un amour Ă©ternel; C’est pourquoi je te conserve ma bontĂ©.
Esaie 54:5
Car ton crĂ©ateur est ton Ă©poux: L’Eternel des armĂ©es est son nom; Et ton rĂ©dempteur est le Saint d’IsraĂ«l: Il se nomme Dieu de toute la terre;
Dear sister in Christ, I rejoice that the Lord has led you here. You are in the right place. Know that this situation, although not easy, is in his hands. He allowed this situation for you to come closer to him, he wants to heal you, restore you completely and bring you closer to him. I encourage you to read the book How God May Be Will Restore Your Marriage. He delivers himself full of truth and his word. Once you have read this book, I strongly encourage you to follow the free courses available on aide.maritale.com. There are also the books By the word of their testimonies available, these are the testimonies of those who have gone through situations similar to yours and who have experienced restored marriages. What they did for others he wants to do for you too. In the meantime, take him as your husband, take his hand and let him guide you and console him, he is ready, he is just waiting for him. He loves you so much.
Be abundantly blessed.
Jeremiah 33:3 The LORD shows himself to me from afar: I love you with an everlasting love; This is why I preserve my kindness to you.
Isaiah 54:5
For your Creator is your husband: The LORD of hosts is his name; And your redeemer is the Holy One of Israel: His name is God of all the earth;
Ma chĂšre StĂ©phanie, j’ai d’abord vu que tu Ă©tais maltraitĂ©e quand tu Ă©tais enfant.
Ces blessures passĂ©es peuvent avoir un effet nĂ©faste sur nos relations, et ce dont vous avez besoin en ce moment, c’est que le Seigneur guĂ©risse toutes vos blessures passĂ©es. C’est pourquoi le Seigneur m’amĂšne Ă vous encourager Ă le chercher Ă propos du cours « Il m’a guĂ©ri » : https://loveatlast.org/hhm/.
Enfin, j’aimerais Ă©galement partager avec vous la leçon de LĂącher prise : https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/d15/. Il ne s’agit pas de lĂącher prise et d’avancer, mais de laisser votre situation entre les mains du Seigneur pendant que vous vous rapprochez de Lui et lui permettez de vous guĂ©rir.
« Le voleur ne vient que pour dĂ©rober, Ă©gorger et dĂ©truire ; moi, je suis venu afin que les brebis entretiennent la vie, et qu’elles soient dans l’abondance. » Jean 10:10
My dear Stéphanie, first of all I saw that you where abused as a child.
These past hurts can have a detrimental effect on our relationships, and what you need right now is for the Lord to heal all your past hurts, therefore the Lord is leading me to encourage you to Seek Him about the “He Healed Me” course: https://loveatlast.org/hhm/.
Lastly I would also like to share the Letting Go lesson with you: https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/d15/. This is not letting go and moving on, but leaving your situation in the Lord’s hands while you draw closer to Him and allow Him to heal you.
Dear precious Stéhpanie, I am so sorry for what you went through as child. I too struggled with depression and it was our wonderful Lord that healed me and I know our wonderful Lord is going to heal you of all the hurt and he will be the One to bring restoration, just take His hand, because He is the best Healer ever. By His wounds you have been healed. 1P2:24
What helped alot for me was to memorize the word of God and to speak the word of God into my life, because the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. H4:12
I want to encourage you to read Course 1, Chapter 16 – https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d22-chapter-16-the-keys-of-heaven/ and I want to encourage you to please journal because there you can pour out your heart to our loving Lord.
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ChĂšre prĂ©cieuse StĂ©hpanie, je suis vraiment dĂ©solĂ©e pour ce que tu as vĂ©cu Ă©tant enfant. Moi aussi, j’ai luttĂ© contre la dĂ©pression et c’est notre merveilleux Seigneur qui m’a guĂ©ri et je sais que notre merveilleux Seigneur va vous guĂ©rir de tout le mal et il sera celui qui apportera la restauration, prenez simplement sa main, car il est le meilleur guĂ©risseur. jamais. Par ses blessures, vous avez Ă©tĂ© guĂ©ri. 1P2:24
Ce qui m’a beaucoup aidĂ©, c’est de mĂ©moriser la parole de Dieu et de prononcer la parole de Dieu dans ma vie, car la parole de Dieu est rapide, puissante et plus tranchante qu’une Ă©pĂ©e Ă deux tranchants, perçant mĂȘme jusqu’Ă diviser l’Ăąme et l’esprit, des articulations et de la moelle, et il discerne les pensĂ©es et les intentions du cĆur. H4:12
Je veux vous encourager Ă lire le cours 1, chapitre 16 – https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d22-chapter-16-the-keys-of-heaven/ et je veux vous encourager Ă tenir un journal car lĂ vous pouvez dĂ©verse ton cĆur vers notre Seigneur aimant.
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”