Carolina
Canada
Separated
How Go Can and Will Restore Your Marriage is the most powerful book I have ever read. Since the first page it not only touched my heart but spoke to me directly. It is a book full of wisdom and the truth of GOD. I have never felt such conviction with any other book in my entire life. I have to admit that in the beginning some of the learning were a bit drastic and radical from my personal point of view, but after this long journey I have understood that the ways of the world are not the ways of my LORD and if I want to serve the LORD I need to be radical in my decisions and my walk with the LORD. I know from my own experience that all the principles in this book are real and apply in every situation in life. This is an excellent source and every single women in the world should read this book, I believe we all need it.
I would definitely recommend By the Word of Their Testimony. Reading these testimonies was the best thing that ever happen to me, they are so encouraging, so full of hope, and they are the clear demonstration of God's power in the most impossible situations. These testimonies gave me hope and peace during the most difficult times, because I know GOD will do the same for me, HE will restore my marriage and I can't wait to write my restore marriage testimony once my marriage so restore so I can encourage other women with mine. This is the best source of encouragement. Highly recommended
My marriage situation hasn't changed, actually from my perspective it seams even worse, but it does not matter anymore, because I have changed. These resources have been very important in my grow with the LORD. They helped me to find the most important relationship I need to have and that is my relationship with the LORD. I used to be the more confronting person, I used to love fighting for no reason and I always found the way the win the fight, I used to enjoy long days without talking to someone after a fight just because it was fun to hurt them, I was the most contentious woman. Today I can say thanks to these sources I am a new person, I still have a long way to go, but thank to GOD I am not that horrible person I used to be. Today just thinking to hurt someone breaks my heart, fighting isn't my thing anymore and I can barely stop talking to people, I need to apologize or ask for forgiveness every time I know I hurt someone, that's how you resources had helped me to be a better person and to love the LORD.
I know it is hard to understand what is happening to you and your family, the destruction of your marriage just hit you and your are wondering what happen?, why this is happening to you?, well it is time for you to stop asking why and instead start asking what? what do you need to learn? what do you need to change? what do you need to find? every trial in our lives happen for a reason, today you are in this situation because there are something big for you, something supernatural, just start walking in faith and you will see, your marriage will be restore, but first you need to find the LORD and He will do the rest.
Janet
PA
Separated
Try this course. Keep an open mind. It is like trying a new recipe that you may not be familiar with. Be patient, and watch for the small everyday miracles that occur. If you feel like you have lost everything, than you have nothing to lose by doing this. Think about how your own methods are working for you, (probably not) . God has sent you here, not by accident. He sent me here and I am grateful for the way in which He is working in my life.
reading the testimonies of others can be encouraging especially when you can identify with others. In some, there is no other explanation BUT GOD. In all cases, the foundational theme is prayer and faith. I guess it works! I trying it, and getting better at it, and when I am not so good some days, I simply ask God to help with it for the day.
My husband and I are in our 60"s. My first husband is deceased, and he is divorced. His first wife committed adultery, has a non covenant child, and was incarcerated for illegal activities. We lived together for 10 years before we married. We have been married for 4 yrs. I asked God about all these circumstances surrounding our marriage, and I do believe he wants to have us restored. I became contentious and negative due to great losses, I felt like Job. my husband left to live with another woman. We have remained in contact, and I do not think it is over between us,, and the other woman is a platonic friend, however it is still an affair of the heart, and she has a husband not living with her. That sums up my circumstances. All that aside I have found strength in " Trust in the lord with all your heart and rely not on your own understanding, acknowledge Him in all ways and He will make your Paths straight."(Prov. 3:4-6) all of my fleshly effort made the situation worse. God has begun to bring us closer. Glory be to Him!
Dear Stander, You can eat an elephant one bit at a time. Take your time and leave no stones unturned. Go on this journey with Jesus, and you will be forever changed. Just one bit, step at a time.
Misty
VA
Separated
Yes, I would definitely recommend this book to any woman that is going through marriage trials be it divorce or separation. I am so glad someone gave this book to me. I have learned so much from it and everything is backed up by God's Word.
Yes, I would recommend this book too. Some days are very discouraging in my stand but it helps to know that some people have been through the same thing I have and even some have been through worse times than myself. In the end we all desire a closer walk with God and marriage restoration.
When I found you, my husband had walked out on me and our son for another female that he had become involved with while attending school. He blamed me for everything and told me although he loved me, he was not in love with me. I was totally crushed. I begged and pleaded and to no avail, he still left. He had told me many times what I would not listen to (issues we had)....because I was a contentious wife.