Imara
Sri Lanka
Separated
Oh yes this book was amazing and I can’t wait to be that wife to my husband someday and be that at least from afar till he comes back home. Thank you for teaching me about being submissive and letting go and getting close to God and to part form my husband to get close to God. Without this book there could have been no hope for restoration.
I haven’t bought this book yet.
My husband has been angry and hating me. In September he changed a little and even though he went back to hating me because I didn’t have the RYM book and made a fundamental mistake on the 16th of October which was his birthday and I found out that he would be have the OW at his party and would expose my kids to her for the first time I said I would call the police and my lawyer he blocked me after that. Had I known about submission and respect and winning without words I would not have done that. I am waiting for the opportunity to show him I have changed. I even sent him a letter asking for his forgiveness for all the terrible things I’ve said and done as a contentious wife. The book has changed how I see my husband, my life and mist of all God. It has shamed me and made me embarrassed at who I was for so long. Thank you for teaching me in such a clear precise and meticulous manner. I have never read a book that was so clear and easy to understand. I hung in every single world and took it in hungrily.
May you be encouraged by this and May your life be transformed in the love of God. And May this lead you to a restored marriage.
Edith
United States
Divorced
I would definately recommend "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage" book. Please read the book. This book will give you hope and breathe new life into you. It is based on the word of God. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says, "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work." I pray we let the Word of God take root in our hearts so that we may be equipped for the good work He has set before us.
"By the Word of Their Testimony" is amazing. It is full of the faithfulness of our HH. Our stories are different, but you will find, as I did, many similarities and if our HH could change their situation than He can and will change ours as well. This book will help you to let go and to trust our HH as He works in our lives.
I did not have these resources from the beginning so I "pushed and pushed", as my FH told me once. At first he agreed to stay and work on our marriage, but I was needy, desperate, clingy, and fustrated because I was not seeing the results that I wanted to see. So much so that within 3 months he filed for divorce. Our divorce was finalized 10/16/20 (eleven months after he filed). Just weeks after our divorce went through he accidently sent me a text meant for the OW and I was completely heartbroken. I had no idea he was with someone already. I couldn't breathe. I was desperate for hope so I did a search for marriage restoration after divorce and I found your website. I was a HORRIBLE, no good, rotten wife and the Lord was showing me but I didn't know how to stop. I kept blaming my FH. Your resources confirmed what our HH was lovingly trying to teach me but I was so stubborn, and arrogant, and prideful I didn't want to turn from my evil ways. Just weeks before our separation in August 2019 our pastor was teaching on Ephesians 5:22-33. On the last Sunday of the Sermon Series he requested the wives do something for their husbands to show our appriciation. I was not listening so I can not tell you what is was, but I do remember thinking, "Well, it's a good thing that he didn't come to church today because there's no way in hell I would do that." And even then I heard His still, small voice. A week later, on what would have been our 20th anniversary, we had the fight that broke the camel's back. That is how desperately our HH wanted me to change. He warned me over and over again, but I did not listen.
2 Corinthians 7:10-11 "Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. See what this godly sorrow has produced in you..." You are about to embark on a bittersweet journey. You are going to look into a spiritual mirror, for probably the first time, or if you were like me a mirror that you have tried to ignore. You will not like what you see at first, but if you let our Beloved Bridegroom wash you with His loving words the image will start to change. This is a hard journey, but if you give our HH your hand and let Him guide you, you will make it. Don't give up. Know that even though I don't know your name or the exact details of your situation, He does. I am praying for you and I am looking forward to one day reading about your miracle. Ada in Texas
Shwanna
TN
Married
I say please get these two books, they will bless your soul.
These testimonies helped me so much in my life, this book is a must.
When I found this ministry, my husband had been gone a few months. He’s still away at the moment.
God is fighting for you; you will win.
Kelsey
Texas
Separated
I knew that after reading chapter 1 of RYM it was going to the book that I needed. There is a lot of information about the OW towards the end and for me, I am not aware of there being another woman so those chapters only created more doubt and fear for me. But the rest of the book was AMAZING. I love all the verses and even more when it explains it and apply to our life.
I did not buy any of these books but all the Testimonies during each day really gave me hope. In most of them, I could find similarities in my situation and it provided me with hope that my marriage too could be restored.
When I found RYM, I was on month 3 of my husband out of the house. I felt like I had tried everything to win him back. Let him be, be nice, try to convince him to come back, all of the things that I learned that you shouldn't do. I thought I controlled the situation. And none of it was helping. He was bringing up divorce and filing papers, selling our house, etc. Granted those things are still being brought up I have learned so much in the last 30 days and have more hope than I have had in a while.
Be strong. Be strong in heart, all you who hope in the Lord. Psalm 31:24 There are going to be tough days but be strong and lean on Him to get you through those times. Ask him to comfort you and bring you peace. He will provide.