💔MM: I was controlling in US

Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:

    1. Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
    2. Keep it SHORT.
    3. Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
    4. Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
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Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.

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Country:
United States
What language do you speak?
English
I'm here:
Seeking restoration for my marriage.
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation.
Divorced.
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?"
No
How did you find our ministry?
Google
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship?
My husband walked away from God and our marriage, to live a life the way he wants with the ow. I was controlling and manipulating...
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him.
God I need Your help. I know You will restore. Help me to be ready when he comes home. That You will always be first. Help me get Closer to you in your word. Help me to hear the Holy Spirit. Find in me what needs to be healed and or confessed. I know You are the only way. Help my Heart to see you and my mind to understand what I'm reading. In Your Sons Holy name amen and Amen
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Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time.
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4 thoughts on “💔MM: I was controlling in US”

  1. Dear Bride
    It’s great that you are searching in Him for understanding .
    Cry out for wisdom, and beg for understanding. Search for it like silver, and hunt for it like hidden treasure. Then you will understand respect for the LORD, and you will find that you know God. Only the LORD gives wisdom; he gives knowledge and understanding. Proverbs 2:3-8. I also make this prayer often.
    Is great that your gaze is upon Him and not over your circumstances, for is in Him that our eyes must be fixed. This is the place that he has called us to be. I encourage you to read the book How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?”
    https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
    so you can be acquainted with His ways and also the abundant life( https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/) so that you know that you are never alone, He is the best husband ever!

  2. Dear Precious sister l want to encourage you 1st go and read the “How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage” book. What is more important about this book is that it will change you and draw you closer to the Lord. But remember once you are done reading it that it is just the very start. Move on to one of our many courses and books.

    Here is the link for the course and chapters of the book and l would recommend that you journal as well. https://hopeatlast.com/c1/

    Here is chapter 1 to get started https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d1-chapter-1-my-beloved/

    Many of us found ourselves where you are right now. Crying out for help, heartbroken. Knowing that this pain was what was drawing us closer to the Lord and looking for answers.

    “For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth that He may support those whose heart is completely His . . .” (2 Chron. 16:9)

  3. God can restore your marriage, even if you’re the only one pursuing restoration. Just be still and give all your concerns to Him. My husband was gone for months and living with the OW. We are now restored but I am still in waiting for my husband’s salvation 💕

    “God is our protection and our strength, He always helps in times of trouble. So, we will not be afraid if the earth shakes, or if the mountains fall into the sea. We will not fear even if the oceans roar and foam, or if the mountains shake at the raging sea.” Ps 46 ICB

    Before my restoration the chapter from the Wise Woman Book helped me tremendously. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ & https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-8-chapter-3-a-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/ and chapters from the WW are in audio if you need to listen while driving, as I enjoyed.

    Only He knows what is best for you. I encourage you to keep praying and seeking Him. He will give you the strength and peace you need to get through this difficult time. I know that you are praying for your husband to come home, but most of the time God takes our loved ones away for a while to bring us closer to Him. He wants to be first in your life. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-2-chapter-2-first-love/ I encourage you to continue to pray and trust in Him.

  4. Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.

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