Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
“Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end: "Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Land |
| South Africa |
| Watter taal praat jy? |
| Afrikaans |
| Ek is hier: |
| Opsoek na herstel vir my huwelik. |
| Wat is jou huidige huwelik status? Maak asseblief seker dat jy die een kies wat jou situasie DIE BESTE beskryf. * |
| Getroud en my man woon by my. |
| Het jy die boek "Hoe God Jou Huwelik Kan en Sal Herstel" gelees? |
| Nee. |
| Hoe het jy ons bediening gevind? |
| Ek is op 'n whatsapp groep, Bemoedig/Encourage woman |
| Vertel ons nou asseblief van jou situasie en hoekom jy na ons toe gekom het vir hulp en wat het jou man/maat gesê is die hoofkwessies of probleme wat hy met jou en julle verhouding het? |
| My man het 'n probleem met pornografie en alhoewel ons nog saam is praat ons nie regtig met mekaar nie. My man is baie aggressief teenoor my en dit maak my baie emosioneel en depressief. Ek gaan ook tans deur menopause en ly aan angs. Ek voel baie alleen en nie seker hoe om ons huwelik te red nie. Ek is ook nie seker of my man ons huwelik wil red nie. Hy is ook baie depressief, want ons het nie op die oomblik 'n vaste inkomste nie en sukkel finansieel. |
| Gebruik asseblief die spasie hieronder om eenvoudig met God te praat, in jou eie woorde, en jou hart uit te stort na Hom. |
| Vader, ek weet nie hoe om hierdie probleem in my huwelik reg te maak nie. Ek bring dit na U toe en vertrou U gaan ons help om ons huwelik te herstel na dit wat U woord sê 'n huwelik moet wees. Ek weet ek kan hierdie nie alleen doen nie. Ek weet U woord sê as ons bid en vra vir iets volgens U wil dan sal ons dit ontvang. Ek waak en bid en vertrou U sal voorsien. |
| Vir ons om meer effektief aan jou te bedien, kyk asseblief watter bekommernisse op jou van toepassing is: |
| Depressief. As kind mishandel of gemolesteer. |
| Ten slotte, kies asseblief hoe jy wil hê ons moet jou Huweliksevaluering doen uit die keuses hieronder. |
| Plaas jou vraelys privaat aan 'n toegewysde IOU Huweliksbediening-student. “Voorbeeld" |
| Country |
| South Africa |
| What language do you speak? |
| African |
| I am here: |
| Seeking recovery for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to select the one that BEST describes your situation. * |
| Married and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage"? |
| No. |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| I am on a whatsapp group, Bemoedig/Encourage woman |
| Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what did your husband/partner say are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My husband has a problem with pornography and although we are still together we don't really talk to each other. My husband is very aggressive towards me and it makes me very emotional and depressed. I am also currently going through menopause and suffer from anxiety. I feel very alone and not sure how to save our marriage. I'm also not sure if my husband wants to save our marriage. He is also very depressed because we don't have a fixed income at the moment and are struggling financially. |
| Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, and pour out your heart to Him. |
| Father, I don't know how to fix this problem in my marriage. I bring it to You and trust You are going to help us restore our marriage to what Your word says a marriage should be. I know I can't do this alone. I know Your word says if we pray and ask for something according to Your will then we will receive it. I watch and pray and trust You will provide. |
| For us to serve you more effectively, please check which concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Abused or molested as a child. |
| Finally, please select how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Assessment from the choices below. |
| Submit your questionnaire privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry student. "Example" |
Liefste bruid.
Ek is jammer om te hoor van die seer wat jy ervaar op die oomblik, ek bid dat Ons Hemelse Vader jou sal omhels met sy oneindige liefde.
Ek wil jou aanmoedig om te begin met die 1ste kursus https://uiteindelikhoop.com/kursus/k1/
Lees en leef in hierdie riglyne.
Gee alles oor aan God, en bly op jou kniee.
“Ek dank God…wanneer ek onophoudelik
nag en dag aan jou in my gebede dink,
terwyl ek verlang om jou te sien as ek aan jou trane dink,sodat ek met blydskap vervul kan word.”
—2 Timoteus 1:3-4
Bly vertrou op Hom:
“Maar Jesus antwoord en sê vir hulle: Voorwaar Ek sê vir julle, as julle geloof het en nie twyfel nie, sal julle nie alleen doen wat met die vyeboom gebeur het nie; maar al sê julle ook vir hierdie berg: Hef jou op en werp jou in die see–sal dit gebeur.” (Matt. 21:21).
Kosbare liefste bruid van Suid-Afrika, ek is so jammer oor al die seer waardeur jy al is en nog steeds gaan. Ek wil jou aanmoedig om die Here se hand te vat en al jou fokus op Hom te sit terwyl jy Kursus 1 doen soos Elora aanbeveel het.
Onthou: “Niks is vir God onmoontlik nie.” L1:37 https://www.bible.com/af/bible/6/LUK.1.37.AFR83 en al is jy nie seker of jou man julle huwelik herstel wil hê nie, moet jy onthou die Here sal jou man se hart draai: “DIE koning se hart is in die hand van die HERE soos waterstrome: Hy lei dit waarheen Hy wil.” S21:1 https://www.bible.com/af/bible/5/pro.21.1
Luister asseblief hoe ons kosbare Here my vrygemaak het van depressie en ek glo met my hele hart dat Hy jou ook wil vrymaak daarvan – https://encouragingwomen.org/alive-with-a-purpose/
Omdat jy genoem het dat jy as kind mishandel of gemolesteer was, wil ek jou aanmoedig om ook asb na hierdie gesprekke te luister, van hoe my suster genees was –
https://uiteindelikhoop.com/genesende-liefde/
https://uiteindelikhoop.com/genesende-liefde-deel-2/
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Precious dearest bride of South Africa, I am so sorry for all the pain you have been through and are still going through. I want to encourage you to take the Lord’s hand and put all your focus on Him as you do Course 1 as Elora recommended.
Remember: “For nothing will be impossible with God.” L1:37 https://biblehub.com/luke/1-37.htm and even if you are not sure if your husband wants your marriage restored, you must remember that the Lord will turn your husband’s heart: “The king’s heart is like a stream of water directed by the LORD; he guides it wherever he pleases.” P21:1 https://biblehub.com/proverbs/21-1.htm
Please listen to how our precious Lord set me free from depression and I believe with all my heart that He wants to set you free from it too – https://encouragingwomen.org/alive-with-a-purpose/
Because you mentioned that you were abused or molested as a child, I would encourage you to please also listen to these conversations, about how my sister was healed – https://encouragingwomen.org/healing-love/
Liefste bruid. Die Here is baie lief vir jou. Hy is by jou en hou jou hand vas. Hy is die heeltyd by jou. Gee als oor vir die Here, en laat die Here. Liefste bruid ek wil jou aanmoedig om die Hou God jou huwelik kan en sal herstel boek te lees en kurses 1 te doen https://uiteindelikhoop.com/kursus/k1/
Liefste bruid die Here wil jou genees en omvou met sy liefde en wil jou vul met sy vrede en liefde.
Ek gryp jou regterhand vas. Ek is die Here jou God. En Ek sê vir jou: ‘Moenie bang wees nie. Ek is daar om jou te help!’ J41:13
https://bible.com/bible/117/isa.41.13.NLV
Moenie bang wees nie, want Ek is by jou. Moenie ontsteld word nie, want Ek is jou God. Ek maak jou sterk en wil jou help. Ek laat jou oorwin met my regterhand wat mense red. J41:10
https://bible.com/bible/117/isa.41.10.NLV
Moet oor niks bekommerd wees nie, maar bid oor alles. Vra alles wat julle nodig het van God, terwyl julle Hom ook dank vir alles wat Hy doen. F4:6
https://bible.com/bible/117/php.4.6.NLV
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”