Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
“Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end: "Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED."
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Country: |
| Uganda |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my current relationship. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Searching for restoration testimonies online |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I and my husband were supposed to be married culturally according to our traditions, but i declined because i was selfish and wanted it legally. It hurt him when i told my parents i did not give consent. I argued alot with him over this and belittled him for choosing that path yet we had agreed on the legal marriage. I also became angry and emotionally tortured him by not picking calls. He distanced himself from me and now has asked me to give him some time to make up his mind, if he still wants me. He noted i am always angry and emotional. I do not respect him and talk back at him. I am selfish and self centered. I have been unfaithful in our courtship by entertaining other men and flirting with them. I have been avoiding his family and not wanting to visit. I sometimes send him out of the house when we argue. I refuse to communicate when we disagree. I would sometimes refuse to cook and clean when am not happy with him. He noted i do not like visiting him at his work place, he works far from me. His parents do not like me, i am a bad wife. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Dear God Here i am, your servant, i am lost, and do not know what to do. I come before you today, because i know you are a God of mercy, have mercy on me. I am a sinner, and i repent of my sins. Search my heart Lord and release me from this crisis and pain. There is nothing impossible for you Lord. Move in my situation. Change my ways and send your holy spirit to heal me, my husband and our relationship. In Jesus name Amen |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
Dear beloved bride, I’m sorry for what you go through. The Lord love you unconditional. I want to encourage you to read the book How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage. And the Marriage Minister Course 1 https://hopeatlast.com/c1/. Dear beloved seek God for everything. He hold your hand and are by your side.
For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.I41:13 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/isa.41.13.NIV
May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. R15:13 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/rom.15.13.NIV
Dear precious bride I am so sorry for your hurt. You took a very big step for admitting your mistakes, so I want to encourage you to put all your trust and hope in the Lord.
Our precious Darling Lord allowed this to happen to draw you closer to Him, so I want to encourage you to give everything over to our precious Darling Lord.
“The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” D31:8 https://biblehub.com/deuteronomy/31-8.htm
I want to encourage you to please do Course 3 https://hopeatlast.com/c3/ (Wise Women – which includes chapters like “A Gentle and Quiet Spirit”, “Kindness on Here Tongue”, “A Contentious Women” and “Your First Love” that will be of great value to you and I want to encourage you please also journal, because there you get the chance to share what you have learned and you pour out your heart towards our Precious Lord.
Dear precious bride from Uganda, I look forward to see how our Darling Lord changes your life and the testimonies you will soon have.
Dearest bride.
I am so sorry to hear about the pain you’ve experienced.
I would like to encourage you to start with the first chapter of How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage like Kristy mentioned. https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
I’d like to encourage you to read Psalms and Proverbs, as these will help you overcome your fears and any anxious thoughts.
https://encouragingwomen.org/psalms-proverbs/
I’d like to leave this verse with you:
“Therefore everyone who hears these Words of Mine, and acts upon them,
may be compared to a wise man, who built his house upon the rock.
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew,
and burst against that house; and yet it did not fall,
for it had been founded upon the rock.”
Matt. 7:24-25.
I look forward to hearing your testimony!
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”