| Country: |
| United States |
| What language do you speak? |
| english |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking healing for myself—I am NOT interested in restoring any relationship. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Divorce filed and my husband does NOT live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| A facebook group, I have read parts of the How God can and will restore your marriage but I'm ashamed to say I burned my book during a fight with my husband. |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| Together for 17years, I was 19 and just had a baby and was in a vulnerable place when we met. I thought he was an answered prayer, my hero...my knight in shinning armor riding in to save the day. I felt a strong chemistry with him from the beginning and I became very attached to early. We went to fast and he moved in with me right away. Life was hard and we were poor. I wanted to share everything with him and he wanted to share nothing with me. Problems and tensions built for years and then 7 years ago things rapidly began deteriorating and we lost his brother. Since then, it has been a downward spiral. My husband has doubt and fear if I have cheated on him. I have done my best to give him reassurance, but I have also made a lot of mistakes that gave him that fear. We each had our own pains and we fought against each other and pulled and tugged it just made everything worse. Neither one of us was able to forgive and just love each other again. My ex husband hated social media and what they could lead to. He was right about it but I didn't want to listen and let him control me because I was rebellious and didn't want to be controlled. I wanted him to invest into me and the relationship before i let him control me so that it was a safe healthy way. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| My Father in heaven, Your power and majesty is so great. You know my past, present and future lord and I pray that you will heal my heart , mind, body and soul and give me rest in you. Please help provide for me and the boys financially and please relieve the excruciating pressure I have been under for far too long. Please make the path before me straight and smoother and please take my hand and walk with me. I can not live this life with out you. I am so thankful for all the blessing you have given me and how you have protected me. Please lord Never leave me again and help to feel loved and adored by you. Also please help me get my head out of my butt and stop making stupid decisions out of hurt or anger. Please help me to get my emotions in control. Thanks so much I love you Amen |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Custody issues. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
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Dear bride, thank you for opening your heart to us.
Dear one, you report to us like this “make the path before me straight and smoother and please take my hand and walk with me”, and that is exactly what the Lord wants to do. His desire is to help you find the abundant life full of the blessings He has in store for you and your family. But there is a condition for this to happen, as He says, “Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Matthew 6:33.
Dear, we want to encourage you to seek the Lord, hold only His hand and He will help you, guide you and guide you on the perfect path that He has established for you, because He wants to be EVERYTHING for you! Read more about it in this lesson: https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d22-heavenly-husband/
Much love to you!💕
Dear Rebecca
I am glad that your desire is to be healed and become whole, it involves having a lot of Him. I can relate to your story, which is similar in many things. My Husband filed for divorce but he still lives with us, when the crisis hit my marriage I wanted very much to restore my marriage, but my focus changed to wanting more of my beloved this lesson explained (https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/chapter-2-finding-your-life/) I also became aware of my condition, how I was lost, far from the Lord, there was no way I would be able to be a blessing to my family and truly love them or others before He made me new again. So my focus also became much more on healing and having a pure heart before the Lord. I am glad that this is your focus too. We need Him foremost, is a necessity! (Through him all things were made; without Him, nothing was made that has been made. John 1:3).
I agree with Marta continue seeking your Heavenly Husband (https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d22-heavenly-husband/) and all other things will be added to you.
Hi dear Bride, just like you I met my former husband when I was still very young, we got engaged and married by the time I was 21. He was the love of my life. Until my marriage fell apart and I realized that the Lord needed to be the Love of my life.
Now that I have grasped this truth, I can see clearly that He had work to do in my life and He allowed everything to happen for my good in the end.
I found this truth while doing the courses here:
https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/
I started writing a Restoration Journey Novel, so if you would like to read some of it, please feel free to:
https://narrowroadpublishinghouse.com/rjn-yvonne/
Dear Bride, just like you I had custody issues, and I lost full custody of my children for more than a year, but my Beloved turned my situation around and you can read my full Custody Novellete here: https://narrowroadpublishinghouse.com/rjn-adina/
“Thank you, we have a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride. This session is now CLOSED.”