Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
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Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
| Country: |
| United States |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking healing for myself—I am NOT interested in restoring any relationship. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Married and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Someone referred me to it |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My husband has committed adultery 3 times. We got divorced in 2020 then remarried end of 2021. We have 3 daughter’s together. One of them was born in 2023. I just found out beginning of last year that my husband has been addicted to pornography, taking thc gummies and abusing alcohol. It’s been very toxic and I honestly feel like I’m with a narcissist. He’s been through two discipleship programs in the past but still abuses alcohol. He says, God knows his heart and will not completely surrender |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| God, I know you know where my heart is and how badly the children and I are hearting. I feel this hindrance when he’s around of not being able to fully operate in who you have called me to be because of the emotional trauma of feeling like I’m not yours. I’m tired of going around the mountain and just hope that you can get him right with you so that we can flourish as a couple. I pray that you convict him of his sins and help him to fully surrender to you, Lord. I know I can’t do this in my own strength and I must surrender my husband but I feel like I’ve done that for the last 10 years. I’m weary God. Will it always be like this? I love my husband but are you releasing me? Speak to me Jesus. I want freedom from all this turmoil in Jesus name. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Custody issues. Abused or molested as a child. Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
Dear precious bride I am so very sorry for all the hurt your are going through. I know how you are feeling, because I too asked the Lord if I will always live in the pain and going around the mountain (it felt like I was reading my own MEQ now), but I can really testify that there is hope with the Lord, because our Darling Lord wants to heal every area of your life and wants you to experience His everlasting love for you – https://loveatlast.org/
I want to give you this beautiful promise: “Instead of your shame you will receive a double portion, and instead of disgrace you will rejoice in your inheritance. And so you will inherit a double portion in your land, and everlasting joy will be yours.” I61:7 https://biblehub.com/isaiah/61-7.htm
I know all this can feel so overwhelming, but I want you to take the Lord’s hand and allow Him to lead you every step of the way and I want to encourage you to please start with Healed Me – https://loveatlast.org/hhm/ and I to encourage you to concentrate on your relationship with our Darling Lord, because I know He wants to heal you in every area of your life and I look forward to the testimonies you will come and give us dear precious bride.
Dear Bride, I am so sorry that you have to go through this, and I agree with what Janine shared.
Embrace this season and surrender your situation to the Lord, He will fight for you. Exodus 14:14. Focus on your relationship with the Lord and allow Him to heal you from all past hurts that can affect your relationships.
I saw that you are also have custody issues, I lost full custody of my children for more than a year, but I placed all my trust in the Lord and He worked it out for good, now I not only see my children everyday, I also Homeschool my children! You can read my full custody novellette here: https://narrowroadpublishinghouse.com/rjn-adina/
“For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless[a] toward him.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20Chronicles%2016:9&version=ESV
Dear Bride,
I totally understand you, sometimes it seems overwhelming, and too much.
But stay closer and connected to our Beloved, He will comfort you, where most hurt, I also pass through very similar struggles, I am leaning on Him, everyday, minute by minute.
There is many things that he is also working in you, stay closer and connected so that you may I understand and pray. I have gone back to the wise woman lately there is precious juwelery there, and journal it if you can. Focus on Him.
https://hopeatlast.com/c3/
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