Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
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| Country: |
| Zambia |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Married and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Your ministry is transforming my life and how is see marriage. i thought every issue had to be confronted but you ca and said won without a word! I'm still journeying through and strengthening my spiritual life with the word of God. Truly, the word of God is truth. I never knew the bible was so rich. |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My husband and i have been married 3 years now. The main issues my husband complains about are that i listen to others more than i do him, i'm stubborn, i procrastinate doing things like getting things in the house done like decor, other things, he doesn't say he prefers keeping them to himself sort to say and he has told me that himself. My situation is that my husband had always entertained a certain lady for over two years now. Every time i spoke about it, he dismissed my feelings and said it was in my head. then i felt something was wrong in my marriage and prayed desperately to God that day, then i found a thread of messages but never said anything about it to this day because i have talked about it several times and thought nothing would change |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| God, please resort my marriage and renew the love my husband has for me. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Fallen into adultery, need help. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
Dear precious bride I want to encourage you to put all your focus on our Darling Lord, make Him your First Love ( https://loveatlast.org/ ).
Please do not confront your husband ever again ( https://hopeatlast.com/c3/fda-chapter-9-spying-and-following/ ), I did it so many times and got very bad consequences, if our Darling Lord wants you to know something He will tell you. I believe that our Darling Lord is allowing these trials in life to draw you closer and closer to Him.
I want to encourage you to do Course 3 ( https://hopeatlast.com/c3/ ) and to please journal at the end of each Chapter because there you will get the chance to pour our your heart to our Darling Lord. Fall inlove with the Lord, make Him really your First Love and He will bring the change in your marriage.
Dear Bride, thanks for sharing your heart. It’s so easy to focus on what we would like to see changes in our circumstances and in others while losing sight of what WE need to change. I agree with Janine. Now that you have read the restoration book, it’s a great opportunity to move onto the free courses and don’t forget to journal.
One of the things that really helped me on this journey is getting into the words every day. If you don’t know where to start, here’s a guide –
https://encouragingwomen.org/psalms-proverbs/
“For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world— our faith.” 1 John 5:4
Dear Bride, I am grateful that His words mean so much to you, because only by reading His words will you experience peace when it is storming around you. I want to encourage you to read the Psalms and Proverbs daily.
https://encouragingwomen.org/psalms-proverbs/
My FH (first husband) experienced the same problems with me as your husband experiences with you. I learned that I was not a submissive wife, I criticized my husband a lot and listened to other people’s advice more than my own husband.
I am grateful that you read the book How God can and will restore your marriage, this book has changed my life and I have learned how God intended marriage
Like Janine, I would like to encourage you to take course 3 https://hopeatlast.com/c3/ .
Finally, I would like to give you two Bible texts that He gave me when I had lost all hope for my marriage and I realized that no one could help me but Him alone.
Exodus 14:14 KJV
The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.
https://www.bible.com/nl/bible/1/exo.14.14
Joshua 1:9 KJV
Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.
https://www.bible.com/nl/bible/1/jos.1.9
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