Name:
Stephanie
| Country: |
| USA |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Married and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| My Marriage Restoration Facebook Group |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My trust has been shattered after finding about infidelities and addictions. I am constantly invading his privacy by going through his phone and checking his social media accounts. I’ve gotten to the point where I’m constantly thinking he’s cheating or doing something to hurt me and my thoughts are consuming me. We are no longer intimate on any level and we barely speak anymore. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| God it’s me again. I am desperately needing a miracle and a transformation in my marriage. Heal my husband and I mend our hearts and restore our faith in You. I am hurting and I want to stop feeling pain. I just want us to be back in love wholeheartedly. I want us to show our children what real love looks like. I want us to be in love with you Jesus. I thank You Jesus in the midst of storm. I still praise your name. Thank you God for always providing for us. Thank You for still keeping some amount of love in our hearts through all of the trauma. Thank you God for keeping me. I know that you have all power to make anything happen. I pray our healing and wholeness is in you Will Jesus. I want to be able to let go of all the pain and all the control and all the obsessive thoughts. I lay it all down at your feet. I thank you Jesus for your love and your mercy. Forgive me God for all of the times I let you down. Keep me near you dear God. I love you I love you I love you. Thank you Jesus. Amen! |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Fallen into adultery, need help. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Privately to an assigned IOU Marriage Ministry Student. Sample |
Please Note: We ask that you reply to this post ONLY if you are an IOU Student working towards qualifying for your Marriage Minister Certificate.
Next to your name, we must see your IOU Level, for example:
Before commenting, remember to:
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- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- After 3 MM Comments and the comments are CLOSED for this session, please continue to encourage by confirming what the ministers are saying by replying beneath their MM Comments.
“Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1 - When YOU are the final 3 Cord of comments supporting o/o/o/ this bride, please CLOSE this session and paste this at the end:
Dear Stephanie, welcome! What you are going through is not easy and I could relate to the anxiety and fear experienced. But praise the Lord that you are here. “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:32
Please consider journaling this lesson to learn the truth –
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d16-dealing-with-adultery/
I would end by encouraging you to take His hand and let Him walk you through the valley. “Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.” Psalm 23:4
Dear Stephanie, it sounds like you are in a lot of pain and that your relationship is in a very difficult place. I understand that you are feeling betrayed and that your trust has been shattered. It breaks my heart that it took me way to long to trust Him enough to let go and not snoop by going through my husbands phone etc. I eventually tired myself out and finally gave it to the one who can change anyone of us in an instant. Please read https://hopeatlast.com/c3/fda-chapter-9-spying-and-following/
There are many people who have been through similar experiences and there are also so many resources available to help you cope.
Also, first read “How God Can and Will Restore” book which helped answer some of the questions as to why this is happening. I want to encourage you to not only read the book but please move on to our many courses found here at Hope At Last https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/ and be sure to journal the lessons.
Dear precious Stephanie, I am so sorry for what you are going through, I want to encourage you with this promise, that nothing is impossible for God, not the addictions and not the infidelities. “For nothing will be impossible with God.” L1:37 – https://biblehub.com/luke/1-37.htm
Dear precious Stephanie take our Lord’s hand and let Him lead you every step of the way, because there is hope in the Lord, just like our wonderful Lord gave all of us hope – https://hopeatlast.com/mho/
I also want to encourage you to please start with Course 1 and to journal because I believe this is your devine appointment with the Lord and He will be the One to change your life.
https://hopeatlast.com/c1/