Sweet ladies,
I love so much how my Beloved shows His love in small details. This week I was discussing with one my friend the principle to win without words. She had a crisis with her boyfriend and told me that also her priest confirmed her, that women should not shut up and say nothing. Unfortunately, this is the way she understand the things from RMI and I understood it so wrongly at the beginning of my journey also. But I really realized at that moment and told her, that it is not to shut up and give up all we want, to lose our needs and desires. It is to win those things we want, need and desire without word. And that means with less pain, fighting and losing energy. And my Beloved confirmed that this principle is working in few days with so beautiful way.
My EH went shopping and I have asked him to buy salmon and tuna because both were in discount. His answer was no, because it is still too expensive. I said only Ok. Ladies, before my journey I would win it with convincing him as long as needed. But that always cost me so much energy, it ended with fights and stone heart of my EH towards me minimum for that day. So the salmon and tuna would have a bitter taste behind my fulfilled desire.
The day went by and later on I went to take something from fridge and I was so surprised when I saw there both salmon and tuna. Vuaaav, ladies, I felt so loved by our Beloved that He change the mind of my EH. When I get the negative answer from my EH, I usually ask my HH. But this time I even did not tell Him. Thank youuuuuuu.
Ladies, there is something on the principle to Win without Words!!!
Psalm 20:4
May He grant you according to your heart’s desire, And fulfill all your purpose.
Yes Annisa this is truly a great principle to live by not only with our eh but with anyone we come into contact with. And yes it takes so much less energy to argue but to rather run to your HH to speak to Him lovingly and He will sort it out ♥️😅
yes my dear Atarah, thank you for your comment! 🙂
Thank you for sharing this praise report Annisa. I am trying to to the principle even with my family and I give the Lord all the glory, because I feel so much at peace not to have the last say.
great Janine, with Him it is possible!!! 🙂
Anissa, I just love this! It’s so important to recognize that the scripture says “WIN without words” (and of course, winning the heart of a loved one matters so much more than anything else I might want right now). After years of manipulating and arguing in order to get my way, I was really seeing the fruit of this foolishness in my children (5 of them!) and it was so exhausting because every day felt like a battle with everyone pitted against each other. Now that I have begun to “abandon the quarrel” (Prov. 17:14) and have been teaching my children to do the same, my house is so much more peaceful! I also thank my HH for using my children to show me how I’d been exhausting not only myself but my EH by always needing the last word.
I can imagine, that some ladies close the RMI books, because they do not read the principle correctly like my friends, I pray that all ladies understand the principle correctly!!! 🙂
Anissa I’ve seen this one principal work so many times. When I get a request from my fh regarding schedules for our children, I just kindly tell him to draw up the schedule and that I trust he will be fare. Then I leave it there and speak only to my Heavenly Husband about my desires and wants. And each time the schedule came back exactly the way me and HH discussed or better! But in all other situations as well, www and only speaking to HH, really works!
that is amazing Adina, I am just in awe, how you deal with the situation you are going trough!!! big hug from Slovakia sweety!!! 🙂
Thank you my dear Anissa! Only Him that can carry us trough and give us peace and joy in the midst of the trails! Sending you a hug back my dear!
Thank you for sharing ❤️
The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.
Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues. P17
exactly my dear Hope-Darling!!! Have a blessed day!!