💔MM: Seems impossible in FRA

April 4, 2024 3 Comments

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Pays
France
Quelle langue parlez-vous
Français
Je suis lĂ :
Je cherche Ă  restaurer ma relation actuelle.
Quelle est ta situation conjugale actuelle?
Jamais légalement mariée et je veux de lŽaide.
Avez-vous lu le livre "Comment Dieu peut et va restaurer votre mariage?"
Oui
Comment avez-vous trouvé notre ministÚre ?
Par une amie chrétienne perdue de vue
Maintenant, veuillez nous parler de votre situation et pourquoi vous ĂȘtes venu nous demander de l'aide et qu'est-ce que votre mari/partenaire a dit comme Ă©tant les principaux problĂšmes ou problĂšmes qu'il a avec vous et votre relation ?
Mon fiancĂ© et pĂšre de ma fille m’a quittĂ© il y a 7 mois. Il me.a dit ne plus ĂȘtre heureux avec moi. Il a dit m’aimer fort mais plus comme un amoureux. Il me reproche de m’ĂȘtre Ă©teinte, d’avoir trop grossi. Il n’est pas chrĂ©tien, je le suis. Quand il m.a quittĂ© il a pleurĂ© en me disant qu’il avait mĂȘme essayĂ© de prier pour que les choses changent et que j’avais laissĂ© le seigneur. Il a raison. J’avais dĂ©laissĂ© mon seigneur et Mon maison n’etait plus bĂątie sur le roc. J’ai criĂ© Ă  Dieu pour le retrouver et demandĂ© pardon. J’ai alors Ă©tĂ© conduite Ă  reprendre des nouvelles de cette chrĂ©tienne, qui m’a alors racontĂ© que son mari l’avait quittĂ© et que le seigneur avait mis ce livre sur sa route. Elle m’a alors conseillĂ© de lire ce livre et on a priĂ© l’une pour l’autre. J’ai lu ce livre qui m’a brisĂ© et permis de retrouver mon Dieu, ma foi et surtout de l.espĂ©rance. Plus je prie, plus je ressens que Dieu veut faire qq chose. Je veux retrouver le pĂšre de ma fille et rĂ©unir ma famille car je l’aime, ma fille souffre. Pourtant, mĂȘme si j’ai l’impression que le seigneur voulait que je lise ce livre, j’en suis convaincue, le fait de ne pas avoir Ă©tĂ© mariĂ© me pose question sur ma lĂ©gitimitĂ© par rapport au statut de femme dans le livre. Je traverse un tunnel, un dĂ©sert, je vis dans un appartement car mon ex m’a demandĂ© de partir, gardant la maison. Tout semble impossible. Il semble mieux maintenant et est passĂ© Ă  autre chose. Tous me disent d’en faire autant mais je ne sais pas pourquoi, je crois que je dois prier’ lĂącher prise et m’attendre au seigneur. La souffrance me fait perdre pied parfois.
Veuillez utiliser l'espace ci-dessous pour simplement parler à Dieu, dans vos propres mots, en lui ouvrant votre cƓur.
Seigneur
Je demande pardon pour mes pĂ©chĂ©s qui ont conduit Ă  la destruction de mes fiançailles et de ma famille. Je ne t’ai plus donnĂ© la premiĂšre place, ma maison Ă©tait bĂątie sur du sable et tout s’est Ă©croulĂ©. Pardon seigneur.
Aide moi Ă  lĂącher prise et Ă  te laisser prendre le contrĂŽle sur ma situation. GuĂ©ris moĂź , fais de moi une nouvelle personne, restaure moi. Parle moi, montre moi ta volontĂ©. Vas-tu restaurer mon couple et ma famille ou as tu d’autres plans pour moi ? Je t’aime seigneur. RĂ©ponds moi. Sors moi de ma dĂ©tresse. Sois Ă©levĂ©. Amen
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Déprimée.
Enfin, veuillez choisir comment vous souhaitez que nous procédions à votre évaluation de mariage parmi les choix ci-dessous.
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Country
France
What language do you speak
French
I am here:
I am looking to restore my current relationship.
What is your current marital situation?
Never legally married and I want help.
Have you read the book “How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?”
Yes
How did you find our ministry?
By a long-lost Christian friend
Now please tell us about your situation and why you came to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship?
My fiancé and father of my daughter left me 7 months ago. He told me he was no longer happy with me. He said he loved me very much but more like a lover. He blames me for having died down, for having gained too much weight. He is not a Christian, I am. When he left me he cried telling me that he had even tried to pray for things to change and that I had left the Lord. He is right. I had abandoned my lord and My house was no longer built on rock. I cried out to God to find him and asked for forgiveness. I was then led to hear from this Christian woman, who then told me that her husband had left her and that the Lord had put this book on her path. She then advised me to read this book and we prayed for each other. I read this book which broke me and allowed me to find my God, my faith and above all hope. The more I pray, the more I feel that God wants to do something. I want to find my daughter's father and reunite my family because I love him, my daughter is suffering. However, even if I have the impression that the Lord wanted me to read this book, I am convinced of it, the fact of not having been married raises questions about my legitimacy in relation to the status of woman in the book. I go through a tunnel, a desert, I live in an apartment because my ex asked me to leave, keeping the house. Everything seems impossible. He seems better now and has moved on. Everyone tells me to do the same but I don't know why, I think I have to pray, let go and wait on the Lord. The pain makes me lose my bearings sometimes.
Please use the space below to simply talk to God, in your own words, opening your heart to Him.
Lord
I ask for forgiveness for my sins that led to the destruction of my engagement and my family. I no longer gave you first place, my house was built on sand and everything collapsed. Sorry lord.
Help me to let go and let you take control of my situation. Heal me, make me a new person, restore me. Speak to me, show me your will. Are you going to restore my marriage and my family or do you have other plans for me? I love you lord. Answer me. Take me out of my misery. Be elevated. Amen
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3 thoughts on “💔MM: Seems impossible in FRA”

  1. Shalom shalom sister,
    Alors le Seigneur a une parole pour vous.
    Dieu veut que vous sachez qu’il est le votre qu’il a vous et que c’est lui qui fortifera… Je vous encourage aussi prier et demandĂ© a Dieu un nathan qui vous aidera dans la priere

    https://saintebible.com/isaiah/41-13.htm
    ÉsaĂŻe 41:13 â–ș
    Versets ParallĂšles
    Louis Segond Bible
    Car je suis l’Eternel, ton Dieu, Qui fortifie ta droite, Qui te dis: Ne crains rien, Je viens Ă  ton secours.
    Dieu ne veut pas que vous regarder a la situation mais a lui.
    Comme vous avez deja lu le livre je vous inviterai a lire aussi la femme sage et de lire les témoignages.
    https://encouragingbookstore.com/women-resources/ww/

    Je vous encourage aussi a lire votre bible tous les jours de passer du temps dans la louange et l’adoration.
    Soyez benis abondamment

    Shalom shalom sister,
    Then the Lord has a word for you.
    God wants you to know that He is yours, that He has you, and that He is the one who will strengthen… I also encourage you to pray and ask God for a nathan who will help you in prayer

    https://saintebible.com/isaiah/41-13.htm Isaiah 41:13 â–ș Parallel
    Verses
    King James Bible
    For I am the Lord your God, who strengthens your right hand, who says to you, Fear not, I will help you.
    God doesn’t want you to look at the situation but at Him.
    As you have already read the book, I will invite you to also read The Wise Woman and read the testimonies.
    https://encouragingbookstore.com/women-resources/ww/

    I also encourage you to read your bible every day to spend time in praise and worship.
    Be Blessed Abundantly

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  2. ChĂšre sƓur en Christ je suis me rĂ©jouie que le seigneur t’aie amener ici . Tu est au bon endroit. Le seigneur a permis cette situation afin de te ramener Ă  lui et que tu vivre la vie abondante qu’il nous a promis . Comme tu la tu la si bien dis il est le Roc sur lequel nous devons bĂątir nos vie . Sache Ă©galement que de nombreuses femmes ici qui n’étais pas mariĂ©e au dĂ©part ont vu Dieu restaurer leurs relations par un beau mariage . Certaines Ă©tais chrĂ©tiennes d’autre non certaines l’étais le conjoint non . Elles n’ont rien eu Ă  faire que de recherche une intimitĂ© avec leur Ă©poux cĂ©leste le remettre Ă  sa place c’est Ă  dire la premiĂšre place . Donc ne te dĂ©courage pas Dieu est au contrĂŽle se qu’il a fais pour les autres il le fera pour toi .
    Nous avons des cours gratuit ici qui t’aideront durant se voyage .
    Le premier s’intitule L’espoir enfin je te le recommande
    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/

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    Dear sister in Christ, I am delighted that the Lord has brought you here. You are in the right place. The Lord allowed this situation in order to bring you back to Him and for you to live the abundant life He promised us. As you say so well, he is the Rock on which we must build our lives. Also know that many women here who were not married to begin with have seen God restore their relationships through beautiful marriage. Some were Christian, some were not, some were not, the spouse was not. They had nothing to do but seek intimacy with their celestial spouse and put him in his place, that is to say first place. So don’t be discouraged God is in control and what he has done for others he will do it for you.
    We have free courses here that will help you during your trip.
    The first is called Hope at last I recommend it to you
    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/

    I also encourage you to read and reread the book How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage. Being filled with biblical verses you will meditate on his cease his word.

    Be blessed

    Je t’encourage Ă©galement Ă  lire et relire le livre de Comment Dieu peut et Restaurera votre mariage . Étant rempli de verset bibliques tu mĂ©ditera sa cesse sa parole .

    Sois bénis

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  3. Bonjour ma chérie!

    Bienvenue chez RMI, un beau ministĂšre oĂș presque toutes les femmes arrivons avec les cƓurs brisĂ©s comme toi, Ă  cause de mariages oĂč relations brisĂ©es. Et ici on dĂ©couvre que c’est le Seigneur qui nous cherche et nous appelle pour nous rapprocher Ă  Lui.

    Je suis dĂ©solĂ©e d’avoir tardĂ© Ă  rĂ©pondre Ă  ton Ă©valuation, je voulais trouver le bon moment pour ĂȘtre avec le Seigneur et pouvoir vous rĂ©pondre en toute sĂ©rĂ©nitĂ©.

    Ma chĂšre, tout d’abord, tu dois savoir que ce n’est pas par hasard que le Seigneur t’a amenĂ©e ici. Tu sais que le Seigneur contrĂŽle tout et qu’il est souverain, rien de ce qui nous arrive n’est le fruit du hasard : soit il le provoque, soit il le permet pour une raison ou une autre :

    ÉsaĂŻe 45:5-7 “Je suis l’Éternel, et il n’y en a point d’autre, Hors moi il n’y a point de Dieu; Je t’ai ceint, avant que tu me connusses.

    C’est afin que l’on sache, du soleil levant au soleil couchant, Que hors moi il n’y a point de Dieu : Je suis l’Éternel, et il n’y en a point d’autre.

    Je forme la lumiĂšre, et je crĂ©e les tĂ©nĂšbres, Je donne la prospĂ©ritĂ©, et je crĂ©e l’adversitĂ© ; Moi, l’Éternel, je fais toutes ces choses.”

    Tu sais aussi que notre Dieu est un Dieu de seconde chance et de restauration. Il aime les familles unies et les enfants avec leurs parents. Il est vrai que dans l’idĂ©al, par obĂ©issance Ă  Lui, vous vous seriez mariĂ©s, mais cela s’est dĂ©jĂ  produit comme ça. Maintenant, je te suggĂšre -si tu ne l’as pas encore fait- de demander pardon au Seigneur et de commencer Ă  lui obĂ©ir en toutes choses. Ne te condamne pas par les choses que tu as dĂ©jĂ  fait mal, simplement donne lui-les a l’Eternel en repentance et commence Ă  marcher de Sa main en obĂ©issance.

    Comme tu as dĂ©jĂ  lu le livre du RVM qui coĂŻncide avec le Cours 1, je te suggĂšre de commencer le Cours 2 dĂšs que possible, une leçon chaque jour et de remplir tes journaux est trĂšs important, pour enregistrer les choses qu’Il te montre Ă  chaque leçon et dans tes priĂšres et le temps passĂ© avec Lui:

    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/

    De plus, un jour par semaine, tu peux suivre le Cours 1 en remplissant les journaux, puisque les journaux du livre ne sont pas terminés. Ce sera trÚs bon pour vous de vous souvenir des erreurs que vous avez commises, sans vous sentir coupable, mais pour renouveler votre esprit et changer progressivement.

    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/

    Et je te conseille de lire ces leçons le plus tĂŽt possible, pour comprendre comment agir en fonction de ta situation et t’orienter sur ce que va ĂȘtre ce chemin de restauration et comment lui demander, et Ă  Lui seul, quelle est sa VolontĂ© pour ta vie et ta famille.

    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/d8-jamais-legalement-marie/

    Chercher Dieu: https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/16-jour-chapitre-12/

    Le relooking de Dieu: https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/d19/

    Mo Voyage de Restauration : https://aidemaritale.com/mon-voyage-de-restauration/

    Ma belle, ne crains pas, Il est en control de tout et si tu lui laisse faire et le mets lui en premier dans ton cƓur, Il restaurera ton cƓur brisĂ© et ta vie.

    Je t’encourage Ă  planifier trois fois par jour pour faire tes cours, pour lire les Écritures, et pour parler en priĂšre avec Lui. Tu vas trouver le meilleur Époux que tu n’as jamais imaginĂ©, son Fils Bien-AimĂ©, JĂ©sus. Il va te ramener Ă  travers ce dĂ©sert en te bĂ©nissant et en te soignant, tant qu’Il guĂ©rira ton cƓur.

    N’oublie pas de revenir sur le blog: https://aidemaritale.com/blog/ pour partager avec d’autres dames toutes les bĂ©nĂ©dictions et pour partager des apprentissage en Ă©crivant des tĂ©moignages de louange.

    Il est trĂšs important de remercier, je lis que tu as de dĂ©pression , le meilleur remĂšde contre la dĂ©pression est la gratitude, jetez un coup d’Ɠil Ă  cette page (traduite en français avec google translator)
    https://hopeatlast.com/thankfulness-therapy/

    Je te laisse ses promesses :
    Jérémie 29 :13-14 « Vous me chercherez, et vous me trouverez, si vous me cherchez de tout votre coeur.

    Je me laisserai trouver par vous, dit l’Éternel, et je ramĂšnerai vos captifs; je vous rassemblerai de toutes les nations et de tous les lieux oĂč je vous ai chassĂ©s, dit l’Éternel, et je vous ramĂšnerai dans le lieu d’oĂč je vous ai fait aller en captivitĂ©.”

    Éphesians 3:20 “Or, à celui qui peut faire, par la puissance qui agit en nous, infiniment au delà de tout ce que nous demandons ou pensons,”

    Luc 1:37 “Car rien n’est impossible Ă  Dieu.”

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    Hello my dear!

    Welcome to RMI, a beautiful ministry where almost all women arrive with broken hearts like you, because of broken marriages or relationships. And here we discover that it is the Lord who seeks us and calls us to draw closer to Him.

    I am sorry for being late in responding to your evaluation, I wanted to find the right time to be with the Lord and to be able to respond to you with complete serenity.

    My dear, first of all, you must know that it is not by chance that the Lord brought you here. You know that the Lord controls everything and that he is sovereign, nothing that happens to us is the result of chance: either he causes it, or he allows it for one reason or another:

    Isaiah 45:5-7 “I am the LORD, and there is no other; besides me there is no God; I girded you before you knew me.

    This is so that it may be known, from the rising of the sun to the setting of the sun, that apart from me there is no God: I am the Lord, and there is no other.

    I form light, and I create darkness, I give prosperity, and I create adversity; I, the Lord, do all these things.”

    You also know that our God is a God of second chances and restoration. He likes united families and children with their parents. It is true that ideally, out of obedience to Him, you would have married, but it has already happened like this. Now I suggest that – if you have not already done so – you ask the Lord for forgiveness and begin to obey Him in all things. Do not condemn yourself for the things you have already done wrong, simply give them to the Lord in repentance and begin to walk by His hand in obedience.

    As you have already read the RVM book which coincides with Course 1, I suggest you start Course 2 as soon as possible, one lesson each day and filling in your journals is very important, to record the things He shows you in every lesson and in your prayers and time spent with Him:

    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/

    Additionally, one day a week you can follow Course 1 by completing the journals, since the journals in the book are not completed. It will be very good for you to remember the mistakes you have made, without feeling guilty, but to renew your mind and change gradually.

    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/

    And I advise you to read these lessons as soon as possible, to understand how to act according to your situation and orient yourself on what this path of restoration will be and how to ask Him, and Him alone, what is His Will for your life and your family.

    https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/d8-jamais-legalement-marie/

    Seeking God: https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c1/16-jour-chapitre-12/

    God’s makeover: https://aidemaritale.com/cours/c2/d19/

    Mo Restoration Trip: https://aidemaritale.com/mon-voyage-de-restauration/

    My dear, do not be afraid, He is in control of everything and if you let Him and put Him first in your heart, He will restore your broken heart and your life.

    I encourage you to schedule three times a day to do your classes, to read the scriptures, and to speak in prayer with Him. You are going to find the best Husband you have ever imagined, his Beloved Son, Jesus. He will bring you back through this wilderness blessing you and healing you, as long as He heals your heart.

    Don’t forget to come back to the blog: https://aidemaritale.com/blog/ to share with other ladies all the blessings and to share learnings by writing testimonies of praise.

    It is very important to thank, I read that you have depression, the best cure for depression is gratitude, take a look at this page (translated into French with google translator)
    https://hopeatlast.com/thankfulness-therapy/

    I leave you his promises:
    Jeremiah 29:13-14 “You will seek me, and you will find me, if you seek me with all your heart.

    I will let myself be found by you, says the LORD, and I will bring back your captives; I will gather you from all the nations and from all the places where I have driven you, declares the LORD, and I will bring you back to the place from which I brought you into captivity.”

    Ephesians 3:20 “Now to him who is able by the power that works within us to do exceedingly well beyond all that we ask or think,”

    Luke 1:37 “For nothing is impossible with God.”

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